My boyfriend likes, even reacts love on ugly girls' pictures on facebook but won't like mine?

[Anonymous]

I'm pretty attractive but my boyfriend won't like my pictures. He prefers liking and reacting love on pictures of girls who are less attractive than me. Also, they use lot of filters in their photos.
Why does he not like mine though?

[shortster]

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I'm guessing these other girls are more of his type. Either that or he is trying to get under your skin. Anyway, you should probably find someone who will treat you better.

[Asker]

Why would be date me for 3 years then?
I always tell him that it bothers me when he likes other girls' pictures but he says it's only a like/love. He never comments though. But it really bothers me as if he is giving attention to these girls.
And even worse, he never likes mine.

[shortster]

People stay in relationships longer for lesser reasons.

[Asker]

Even if they don't like the person they are dating?

[shortster]

Generally dating relationships end when someone actively dislikes the other person. Though if he is spineless, he may be actively sabotaging your relationship in the hopes that you break up with him. Or if he is afraid of being alone he is waiting to find someone else before ending it with you. Both of these scenarios presuppose that he doesn't like you; which may or may not be true. From what you've said I think he is more likely in the grass is greener camp than the I don't like you camp.

[Asker]

This means despite being in a relationship with me, he is looking out for other girls?

[shortster]

That would be my assessment of the situation.

[Asker]

Perhaps but he is a honest guy. I feel he would have left me if this was the case.

[Anonymous]

I asked the same question a while back and got flamed.
my answer: sometimes you don’t know what you got, untill you loose it.

[Asker]

No but I'm really attractive and he doesn't give a damn about my pictures. But he always likes or loves other girls pictures who are not that pretty.

[Tally_ho]

Just dump him and be done with it. As soon as you start having to ask these sorts of questions then it’s as good as over

[Asker]

In fact, I feel like social media has destroyed my relationship.

[Tally_ho]

It will... but only if it is allowed to.
He’s not good enough for you. Respect yourself and get out there and find someone who thinks you are the best thing sliced bread!

[Asker]

Are there any guys who won't like other girls' pictures?

[Tally_ho]

Yes and I can assure you of that from my own testimony. My first boyfriend who I loved more than I ever loved any man used to travel to see me then sit on his phone and ext his girl “friends” and like pics of other girls on Instagram. The disrespect got so much that I dumped him. The next guy I got into a relationship with NEVER did anything like that. He treated me with absolute respect and like I was the only woman in the world. I didn’t think guys like that existed which is why I cling onto the thought of my ex for so long and it stopped me moving on. Please please please know that you are better than this.

FYI my ex got in contact with me a long time afterwards and is now trying to get me back but I will never ever allow that to happen. I had a lucky escape and so will you

[Asker]

May i contact you please?

[Anonymous]

I don’t like how nasty you talk about these other girls, as if they are beneath you. Tacky as hell.

[sdtabot]

I agree with you, anonymous girl.

[Asker]

You agree because your boyfriend didn't like other females' pictures in your face like mine does.

[Anonymous]

What a disrespectful douche.

[Asker]

I find it disrespectful to love other girls' pictures when you're in a relationship.
I mean he can look at them without pressing the button.

[Opinion Owner]

Exactly.

[Asker]

I just wish there are guys who would not like photos all the time.