My boyfriend doesn’t let me post certain types of pictures on social media but likes those types of pictures of other people?

[Anonymous]

Yesterday I posted a few nice pictures of me in a tight dress, my curves being accentuated and of course, I flaunted what I have. My boyfriend has all of my social media passwords and deletes the picture without my knowledge and tells me to stop showing off my body like a whore. Yet, he likes girls pictures and they’ll be showing everything off. It’s not the fact that he likes the girls pictures that bothers me. I don’t really care but, I do find it just a little bit hypocritical? I’m his girlfriend yeah, but what’s the issue if you have no problem looking at and liking someone else’s body flaunting picture but when it comes to mine all hell breaks loose? Shouldn’t I be entitled to post what I choose if that’s the case? I made this point to him and he stayed silent at first and evaded the subject. I wasn’t trying to pick a fight or complain, I sincerely just wanted to understand the logic in that. Like I said, I’m his girlfriend so I guess he wouldn't wanna see me like that on social media but my genitals aren't hanging out, i’m not suggesting anything with my picture, my body just looks poppin!
I know it’s a dumb question to ask but now I’m kinda curious. Thanks!

[Nielctz]

Biggest red flag. Why does he need and have your social media passwords? If my girlfriend wanted mine I would send her packing because it only gets worse from there. Not because I plan to be disloyal but because if she can't trust me enough to have some privacy then it's not going to work. My best guess would be that your boyfriend is possessive over you but at the same time wants to hog the attention of others as well to fuel his self esteem. Also guys that are usually the most jealous and possessive end up being the disloyal partners. Sorry this is not the most uplifting comment but it's just something you need to watch out for.

[smith_this]

Or not

[XiroInfinity]

The insecurity is understandable, and you should talk to him about it. Maybe he isn't right for you if you're comfortable flaunting your body off to everyone and he isn't. But the hypocrisy is definitely not okay, and you definitely need to talk to him.

[XiroInfinity]

I would definitely change your passwords though. If he's doing something on it without your consent then that's a problem in itself. I never needed my girlfriends' passwords nor have they ever needed mine, but if they asked I'd trust them with it. This guy, I would never trust.

[starze]

Personally I'm not a fan of insecure hypocritical boyfriends. There has to be some sort of change either you leave him or he understands your point of view

[smith_this]

Wow really

[starze]

She's an adult she can do what she wants. If he can't comprise there's no point

[smith_this]

Thats not how you came across and you giving advice sensitivity is key

[starze]

Haha I didn't mean it like that sorry if I offended you

[smith_this]

Not me but maybe someone i am sure if he saw this he would be sad. If he gets mad then they should have talked

[Anonymous]

He sounds like a controlling hypocrite. Have you confronted him about it yet?

[smith_this]

Debate does more good than confrontation.

[smith_this]

Gurl no you didn't, lmfao. had to sorry lmfao. But seriously do you want attention from more than just him. If i was with someone who wanted attention like that from just anyone. How am i special to you if your will to "flaunt" what you got to social media. Like for real no man is ok 100% with pics their girlfriends post (flaunting type). Goes the same for men dont try showing up out there with them babe magnet pics. Two way street fuck the bull shit i want love loyalty becuase i am a humanbeing and i dont settle for less than i give

[smith_this]

Look you can think what you want but i am only trying to help and show you, should try and get to a middle ground and if not you will know what type of guys to avoid.

[smith_this]

And just to make it clear and i can prove it via Snapchat i have no clue who you are or your ummm😬 "douches" "bag" boyfriend is and pray he doesn't speak that poorly of you. You should at least be civil.

[Mrblueballs42]

First off why does he have access to your accounts second its your account you can post what you want. If he is going to look at other girls then he is immature.
Tell him they are my accounts and ill post what I want. tell him if your jealous get over it. If your not showing yourself naked nothing wrong with it.

[smith_this]

Camel toe/banana hammock and go

[Wollu]

He is right. Girls who are posting their pictures on social media are exposing themselves to other men. They have a problem with self-esteem and can't get it from the relationship. He sees this as his failure and it makes him jealous and as a jerk. Imagine you'd do the same when visiting a club. You go in and start posing for other men. Posting your body-pictures on facebook is exactly the same. Amongst guys on facebook you are called "attention whore". I'm sure he knows this term.

[H2OHydrox]

He’s a controlling dickhead, unfortunately. He won’t let you post because he knows what guys are thinking when they see it. How? That’s what he’s thinking when he’s creeping on other girls.

[smith_this]

Speculative comment

[H2OHydrox]

@smith_this as is every opinion on here.

[smith_this]

Exactly my point😊

[Anonymous]

Kind of messed up about what he said. Other than that, it seems he just doesn't want the one known as his girlfriend seen like that by other men. A bit of jealousy or maybe feeling like he's not too special? Honestly I wouldn't want my girlfriend showing anything provocative, I want her to only show they kind of stuff to me. On the other hand, I don't go around liking pictures of other women. He wasn't very nice about things.

[Opinion Owner]

*that kind of stuff

[richardhinton]

Your boyfriend is aroused by the pics of other people and he doesn't want you posting them because he doesn't want other men looking at his girl that way

[FriendlyCyanide]

Lol I'd change your passwords and say you don't appreciate what he's doing and if he's got that big of a problem he ain't worth it.

[smith_this]

I give you cedit one of the most netral posts on here you get a 🍪😊😊

[FriendlyCyanide]

I try😂

[smith_this]

😊as everyone should

[Schnitzel]

Because he knows what the other guys are thinking about his girlfriend. 😉

[smith_this]

He is right

[Nineball_Seraph]

Why the fuck you gonna let him control you? Drop him like a bad habit and go do your thing.

[TripleAce]

😂
so it means he has you wrapped around his pinky finger 😛 lol
you obey and he orders

[boggboss]

There is no logic behind it but thats what u picked so meh

[smith_this]

Wrong there is logic

[boggboss]

Well then please inform me so I may see if I'm wrong or right

[smith_this]

Ok i missed your reply but the logic to him-was probably look when you post this, its like me posting that and i want to make sure that we respect each others opinions on post and dont show too much. That is the logic.

[boggboss]

But how can him looking and liking those same pics of other women be fair if he says he don't want her posting them it's a contradiction

[smith_this]

Two separate matters being mushed together you deal with one issue at a time deal with the photo posting then tell him what he can like and look at

[boggboss]

Ah I can agree to that both parties have to think like that though and rarely those that happen but yeah I can see how that works

[smith_this]

Nods😊😊i maybe be bat shit crazy but logics patterns is all i have left in my head one of my few working functions mentally

[boggboss]

No I get that but the reason I respond how I did is because for how u described it to work both parties have to think over the end game plan and not get emotional over it which most likely won't happen would be like chess pieces refusing to move

[smith_this]

Ah a direction yes well the only pair is one in the same you do not sell a size 6 with a size 9 shoe. Emotions will always rise but real true love will leave that under wrap while the debate continue and if break need be take it could back. One thing i can say is know whos heart you agree to take care of

[boggboss]

Hmmmmmm vary true words to think on

[smith_this]

And never judge a crab by its shell

[Anonymous]

Time to get a new boyfriend. He’s a controlling douchebag.

[smith_this]

You know him?

[Opinion Owner]

@smith_this sounds like you do since you feel the need to bitch on everyones opinion. Gotta defend your fellow controlling douchebag. You’re doing a great job. I’m sure he’d be really proud of you. Keep up the good work Smith.

[smith_this]

i am just saying this isn't gonna save you from getting past this. And if he posted the mirror of this question. I would defend your position. I care about people and everyone is getting butt hurt over everything. My life mission is to try and show people they always where their blindfolds and you really gotta think about things.

[HereIbe]

Get a different boyfriend who either 1) Does not look at such pictures of other women or 2) Is okay with you displaying yourself as a piece of meat.

[leifleoden]

JFC why the hell does your boyfriend have all your social media passwords? That's insane!

[LunerBlood]

You're in a messed up relationship. Find a boyfriend that let's you do the thing that makes you happy. To controlling, bounce.

[wandererr]

Lol congratulations you're a dumbass for giving him your personal info and yes he will use it against you if you break up so have fun with that

[smith_this]

Awe pess little mr. What if they work things out and live happy

[Anonymous]

your boyfriend is the boss of you. as the man, that is our duty, we make the double standards that your are too follow. he can like other girls pics like that because they are not his girls,

[Anonymous]

He's extremely jealous, I know I would be like woot babe you look HAF...

[vegaparlog]

He's insecure and you should talk to him about it.

[nina2992]

Maybe he just love you and he is super protective