If a girl is in a mentally abusive relationship, how can she get out?

[Anonymous]

How can a girl get out of a mentally abusive relationship. Any girls here that was in one and have gotten out or maybe still in one?

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Anyone at all?

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Others?

[petitedollbabee]

Through leaving by her own choice. You’re a blue user so clearly you’re not the girl in the abusive relationship, unless you’re pretending to be a guy on here. I assume that you have a friend who is in an abusive relationship and you’re wanting advice on how to convince her to leave it. But the fact is - you can’t decide that for her. She has to do that herself, you cannot make her see how abusive the relationship is. It’s something that only she can come to understand, and only she can make the decision to stay or leave. If you try to force her to see your point of view, you will drive her away from you.

[Asker]

Yes i'am a guy 100% we had 2 conversations and both I made her cry. I just made her realize what was going on. Deep down she even told me she doesn't like what he's doing to her and they broke up for the second time currently. Deep down she knows. Ever since Sunday she has not respond to me. I hope like you said I did not drive her away. I know 2 people who are locked in this cycle and it's a nightmare for them. This girl been with this guy less than 2 years. I told her it's a controlling type of love. It's not legit. You're bring played she manipulated... Deep down she knows. I hope she didn't get back together with him.