Will she forgive me?

[Button90]

Back in April I booked a holiday to Australia from London to see my then girlfriend who had moved there. We broke up badly in June and the flights were non refundable so I took the holiday anyway, while being here she contacted me twice the first i ignored and second I sent her a photo of me and my new girlfriend. I came clean to my girlfriend about why I had booked the trip (I didn’t tell her that part before) and I sent her the text exchange. We haven’t had a chance to talk about it due to the time difference but i can tell she not happy about it which is understandable. Would you forgive this or would you move on? (Dating/relationship for 2 months)

[Oliverlogan263]

Aww man, what a mess bro. I can totally see why she'd be pissed about the whole ex holiday situation.

Honestly if it was me, I don't think I could move past that so soon. Two months is still new, and you buried a pretty big deal like being in another country to see your ex.

Your best bet is to give her space now. Don't blow up her phone constantly apologizing - that'll just annoy her more. Let her process how she feels in her own time.

When you do talk, come 100% clean about everything - no more half truths. Be fully remorseful. Really listen to how much it hurt her without getting defensive.

I'd also suggest showing some sincere changed behavior to rebuild trust. Be super attentive when you are together, really make her feel cared for.

It may take time but if you let her lead the way and show you really get where you messed up, she might forgive you eventually. Just don't expect it to happen overnight man. You dug that grave pretty deep.

Good luck bro, hopefully she'll give you another chance if you prove you learned your lesson!

[HelpfulWoman]

i'd move on. dang you didn't waste time to both be toxic and shove a "new relationship" into the ex's face.

[Anonymous]

I might forgive it once if a girl pulled that on me.