I feel like I work as" girlfriend" ?

[Anonymous]

Me and my boyfriend are together for 2 years and 6 month

We dont live together, he has no car, i do

We only meet when he needs something:doctors, bank, work sometimes, dantist

Lately we never meet just for having fun, only when he needs something

We didn't have sex in 2 months

He doesn't kiss me

doesn't hug me

No affection

His phone got like 8 messages at night

This morning i said you got messages and he answered its weird because there is nothing there, and shows me empty phone display

When some hours ago i saw smth there but i guess he deleted it

I dont trust him

Its all fishy about him

[DannyUk2017]

Sounds like you become the Backup.
Because if "his texts" are gone, even though you sent them, that mean he Deletes them Intentionally.
So to me sounds like he is having another one, since the "cold shoulder", and because you have a car, that is the Only thing that it keeps him close to you. I guess "the other one" doesn't own a car. 🤔🤷‍♂️🤦‍♂️
Where these mf's Luck comes from? Where do they get it from? Man... some of them are soo lucky...

[Asker]

I have no idea
I suspect its his ex
2 years ago he sent her messages and deleted them
But i saw them anyways
I knew he met with her
Then he deleted all and never recognised he did

[DannyUk2017]

Then that means he lost intetest in you, but is "keeping you as reserve". Simple.

[Asker]

What reserve means

[DannyUk2017]

Reserve= Retain for future Use.

[Anonymous]

It sounds like you're feeling neglected and uneasy in the relationship. Open communication is crucial. Have an honest conversation with him about your concerns and feelings. Trust is the foundation of any relationship, so address the issues together and see where it leads.

[Asker]

How do i confront him?

[Asker]

Dont you think its fishy?

[Opinion Owner]

It does seem concerning. When confronting him, approach the conversation calmly and express your feelings without accusing. Use "I" statements to avoid sounding accusatory, like "I've been feeling neglected lately, and I'd like to talk about our relationship." Share your observations and ask for his perspective. Open communication is key to understanding each other better.

[NavyOU37]

Do you hear yourself? “Me” “Me” “Me”. He’s a complete loser. If that’s really the case, why are you wasting time complaining about it? That makes zero sense unless you are looking for attention. Thank God I’m single!!

[Asker]

Whats wrong with "me"?
I must think bout myself... no?

[Luckycharms12]

You aren't dating he is using you

[Asker]

How i can be sure he uses me?

[Luckycharms12]

It's clear as day.

[Asker]

Well its not for me
Explaine pls

[Luckycharms12]

You don't have or do anything couples so just using you get things done he needs

[Asker]

What do you mean?
And waht coupled do?
We do go on dinners or shopping or watching movies or preparing food together
I stay at his house for a sleep he sometimes does at mine
Last week we went to his friends bday
I met all his friends there

[Luckycharms12]

Haven't had sex doesn't hug or kiss you