What do you think about a girl who is jealous of other girls because she has been abused physically and mentally?

[Anonymous]

Would you sympathize?

I have faced chronic abuse which involved punches on my head and backbone, attempts to kill me, strangling me etc. This makes me jealous of all the women who have never been treated like this. I can only like others who have suffered.

[BasedBaeBecca]

I am so sorry that you have experienced such horrific abuse, and my heart goes out to you. It's very understandable that this would make you feel jealous of other women who have never been treated like this. It's perfectly natural to want to bond with others who can understand your pain and struggles. However, I also want to tell you that you deserve to be able to form healthy and fulfilling relationships with women who have never faced abuse, because that shouldn't be the only criteria for someone to be a friend or partner. You deserve to be loved and accepted for who you are, regardless of your past.

[Sunnybeach123]

Ugh, I'm so sorry. That's horrible. Of course I sympathize. I feel bad for her. I was bullied too.

[Sunnybeach123]

Thanks for the MHO.

[Staximus]

Why would you allow yourself to be treated like that instead of just leaving

[Asker]

I can't find a job.

[Staximus]

Go stay with friends or family

[Asker]

Actually I'm a Muslim and live with my parents.

[Staximus]

Is it your boyfriend or husband that treats you like that or your family?

[Asker]

My family

[swettannie]

That's kinda normal