My fiancé doesn’t buy me flowers even not on my birthday?

[Anonymous]

My fiancé and I are long together we getting married in 8 weeks.
problem is he told ever he’s college’s that he really loves me, but that he is not used to receiving so much love and he should be hard to think about the future work hard for us.

problem others are; he never ever buy me flowers once he buy me a beautiful necklace on my birthday after he never buy something for me only dress or shoe I’m ok with that. But I expect more affection. He is a grown man who like to show more affection in physically and sometimes with words. I don’t know how to deal with this man. Help!!!

[Anonymous]

Is he a good guy? Does he treat you well asside from not showering you with gifts?

Different people have different love languages. Find out what his is.

By the way, I think you may not understand what affection means. It has nothnig to do with buying you things.

[Tim2nice]

You sound like my wife. I bought her a house and support her financially but she keeps nagging me for gifts.

[Sasha0426]

Oh! You’re THAT kind of partner.

[HelpfulWoman]

okay? does he know that?
Also, obviously you ARE bothered about lack of gifts since you're mentioning it. Again, DOES HE EVEN KNOW?
Or have you assumed he's a mind reader?

[Asker]

He already knows I told him many times, It was my birthday this year and he forget my birthday! He came tired from he’s work he doesn’t forget only mine, but from everyone.

He tell me everything by the way and I tell him everything even we are bothered by something or we have fucked up day or discussion with someone.

[Anonymous]

Why are you conflating love and affection with buying you gifts?

[jahaims]

You watch too much Disney