Im 33 and never had a boyfriend, and everyone in my family thinks im gay even though im not, what do I do?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

Fuck them. It's your life. You will get a boyfriend in your own timing. Don't let your family make you feel bad for still not having one. I just got a boyfriend at 31 and sometimes I question it. Like am I with him because I genuinely love him or because it makes my family happy. It's not a good feeling at all. I think I am with him because I love him but there's that little doubt in the back of my head that says you're doing this for family. Don't be me. Do it because you genuinely fell in love.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Ignore them, I'm in my 30s and I'm still a virgin. I'm sure people are going to form their opinions about that, but thats their problem, not mine.

As for what to do about being alone? Well, what are you looking for in a guy? That heavily effects how to find them.

[Knightend]

Are you interested in getting into a relationship? If so, lets work on getting a boyfriend. If not, fuck em. Don't let ignorant people force you into anything you don't want to do to meet their expectations.

[virtue2332]

Easy just tell them your gay so they can leave you alone. What do they except for you to mount a man just to prove to them you can.. It's none of there business tell them to mind thiers

[Anonymous]

Even ugly, low IQ, unsocialized people often find boyfriend's or girlfriend's, so what is your reason for never dating?

[Asker]

Combination of low self esteem, not going out enough (I never went to bars for example in my 20's because I dont'' really drink), and just being kind of shy in general. :/

[Opinion Owner]

The first question is whether you actually do want to date.

[Drumlin2001]

Do you want a boyfriend? What's stopping you?
(I didn't have relationship till 35. I had a mental block on intimacy which I didn't want to address)

[Berethor]

Well some men want a woman that didn't been with other men.

[driven159]

stop worrying about what people think run your own life you do what you want to do if it your choice to not have one than it is none of their business

[Sunnybeach123]

You'll find someone (or not, if you want). Don't let them get to you.

[Anonymous]

Unless it bothers you why do you need to do anything. There's NOTHING wrong with being single.

[NeverGiveUp69]

I love girls in their 30s. I'll make your family know you're not gay 😘

[bededazzle]

keep your head held high and walk your own path

[FunkyMonkee]

What's keeping you from getting one?

[Asker]

I don't know where to find a guy that I really like :/

[FunkyMonkee]

You wouldn't be too picky, would you?
I can't find a girlfriend to save my life but it's mostly because every one I try for is either married, spoken for, gay or doesn't like me, for some reason. My last serious love interest, 13 years ago, lives in Bulgaria! Neither of us has a way to get to the other so, we had to break it off. Now, of course, SHE'S found someone else and I'm still completely alone! Girls say they love tall guys but, I guess 6' 9" is too tall for them.

[deus_ex_sisyphus]

Fk em thats your business not theirs

[Pudsmucker]

Hire a date when you go visiting family.

[jahaims]

Not care what others think

[Joker_]

just be yourself

[kareka]

U just didn't find ur 2nd part yet

[slatyb]

What do you want?

[JackStany]

Really?

[Asker]

yeah D:

[JackStany]

Oh You must message me for sure.

[Asker]

why?

[JackStany]

Because I want to get to know you. In this era, there are no good women like you anymore.

[Lostinthisworld94]

Contact me...

[riverrat3]

Ignore them