What are your 4 non-sexual '‘bases’' in a relationship?

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blunty · Accepted Answer

It's a cool way to think about the progression and depth of a relationship. So, let's swing at these non-sexual 'bases':

First Base – Emotional Connection: This is where it all begins. It's the getting-to-know-you phase where you're building trust and finding out just how much you enjoy each other's company.

Second Base – Deepening Trust and Support: Here, you're moving past just knowing about each other to really understanding each other.

Third Base – Integration into Each Other's Lives: This isn't just about being a couple but also about fitting into each other's worlds. Meeting friends and family, understanding each other's routines and daily lives, and starting to think of yourselves as a unit rather than just two individuals.

Home Run – Commitment and Future Planning: At this stage, you're not just in a relationship; you're building a life together.

Each of these 'bases' represents a deeper level of connection and commitment. Just like in baseball, you don't necessarily rush from one base to the next – it's about pacing and making sure you're both comfortable and ready for the next step. And remember, every relationship is unique, so these 'bases' might look a bit different for everyone!

HaleyCatgirl · Accepted Answer

Amount of pillows they will be mine at the end of the day Does he play video games I like gaming Does he like to go to the gym I have to go to the gym everyday Snuggles required for power >:3

JacobJordan · Accepted Answer

1 year mark would be 1st base. 3 year mark would be 2nd base. A proposal/living together is 3rd base. Marriage or non government equivalent would be 4th base.

In terms of a marriage.

1st kid is 1st base. House or similar more permanent dwelling is 2nd base. 10 year mark is 3rd base. 25 year anniversary is 4th base

syncheart · Accepted Answer

Are you trying to ask what you like about someone's personality and interests? It is nice to be friends with anyone that shares your same interests and is a joy to be around.

BoopBoopBeep · Answer

I've never heard the term "bases" referenced in a non-sexual manner until now. I've no clue what that could mean.

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

Shared sense of humor check. Shared interests and hobbies check. Intelligence and empathy check. Trust (result of passing the others).

sheikalana · Answer

Commitment. Trust. Respect. Loyalty.

Minahh · Answer

shared values, trust, safety, harmony

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