Feminine nurturing instinct. It makes little difference to me how well you can get me to cum, if you're wholly unable / unwilling to comfort me when I'm sick or injured.
Sewing. Yes, some men are able to learn how to do it too, so it's not an exclusively female skill. But there's something about a woman who can fix any item of clothing I damage via basic wear and tear, who can do it in mere minutes like it's nothing.
Problem is, when she then screws up her own laptop catastrophically when I'm not around to witness what she typed or clicked, then expecting me to psychically know what mistake she made, and fix it with a single magic keystroke. Code doesn't work that way! And if it's a code language I don't know, I'll be just as lost as she is! Especially if it doesn't have an English language base! If it's a code language based on Russian, for example, I won't know how to decode or fix jack squat! It'd be even worse than her being asked to operate a sewing machine built on some framework that's totally foreign to her.
Also, I've noticed when preparing food: women can do it with a certain heart of care that's hard for men to replicate to the same standard. This is really obvious at Subway. You rarely ever see men work there. And the ones that do? Making a sandwich just isn't the same.
Modeling, likewise. The poses women can get away with that men can't...
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I'm skewed heavily towards the arts and humanities types. I'm actually a STEM type as a software engineer and I've worked with my share of brilliant female mathematicians and engineers. Yet I always found most of them to be on the dry side in spite of their brilliance.
So I tend to favor women who excel in the arts and humanities: artists, archaeologists (I managed to meet one and while she might not have been the most glamorous, I could listen to her speak all day about her travels), actresses, musicians, dancers, writers (I married one), women of this nature.
In particular, I like women with a passion and a zest for life and adventure. I tend to find more of those in my limited experiences in the arts and humanities. I did meet an exception once. She was a medical researcher and, while being a STEM type, had this sort of passion and warmth to her that I usually find more in the arts and humanities types.
OK, I know I'm young and, no, I haven't actually BEEN on a date but... I still have my opinions. So, what non-sexual skills would attract me? TBH, for the majority of guys I know, sexual skills may be all they have but, not interested! No, what would interest me would be that he is a Christian (that would mean we already have our direction in life in common). Next, eyes, smile, and butt (OK, those aren't skills but... yeah, they're important!). So, actual skills? Being a gentleman is a skill. Being a protector is a skill. Being a provider, no matter what he does, another skill. And being able to do stuff around the house like my dad and brothers do? Add that to my list.
I think I need to date a guy who's like 25 - HA! None of the guys I know (who're anywhere near my age) have more than one or two of those "skills" (although, TBH, most have at least two of the eyes, smile and butt "skills"). ;D
Below aren't necessarily "skills" per say but these are immediately obvious characteristics that count.
Not in any particular order:
1. humility
2. the gift of gab
3. courtesy/chivalry
4. intelligence/intellect
5. dapper dresser
6. humor
7. athleticism
8. health & fitness
9. good grooming/hygiene
10. confidently assertive but not aggressive
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I like a guy who is expressive with his facial features and words and body language - it’s cool if he can dance to music - And I love guys who look good in black
• A Woman who is confident in her own skin
• A Woman who is healthy and eats really nutritious food, they often have this glow about them that carries outward and is visible when you first lay eyes on them.
• A Woman who can clearly communicate how she is feeling.
• A woman who is a good listener.
• A woman who is decisive, who knows what she wants and makes her own choices and decisions.
• A Woman who has her own hobbies that she is passionate about and enjoys: Singing, music etc
• I also find a woman who can convey a message without using any words attractive like a wink, a particular facial expression, using her eyes, her body language and any other unique characteristics.
• I'm very attracted to women who are good with children, who enjoy being around them.
• Women who love pets
• A Women who is able to share your thoughts and finish your sentences.Im attracted to intellectuals so I’d definitely say watching him in debate or listening to how he articulates himself succinctly. Educating yet allowing himself to be educated. A man who enjoys reading and analyzing things. And for some odd reason watching my fiancé play chess is extremely attractive 🥰
I like guys that can do guy things, hence wut attracted me to my now husband. Besides fixing cars he knows how to fix basically everything cept the HVAC. He put in our central air, but fixing the heater wasn't so good. I am not so into games, computer technology, or electronics. Physically? I liked his V-back and muscles. Guys shaped like a rectangle aren't attractive to me. He's happy I don't mind getting dirty bc I can't cook very well! 😄
Cooking, gardening and other domestic skills.
My Philippine wife did this before she got here.She also did this to protect her property from Muslim and Communist terrorists.
I've learned that what turns me on is a woman who has a son take listening skills. I once was seeing a therapist who was overweight and ugly. But she had wonderful listening skills and she understood what I was saying. I soon found myself attracted to her. I know it's crazy but that's how I'm wired.
- The ability to have a conversation about different topics.
- Saying funny things in a serious tone (women really light me up with that lol).
- Being humble. I love a humble woman a lot.
- Knowing hacks and having the brains to figure out what to do in an emergency or tough situation (when a woman has this intelligence it is truly sexy as fuck).Experience with children is a huge boon, those little things can be terrifying if you're not ready for them (lots of experience with them myself, but both having the skills means no one panics!).
Other than that, what skills would I like to see in my child? Respect, decency, selflessness, endurance, a strong will, kindness.
These aren't personality traits, they are skills, they require discipline and training from a young age.Intelligence. Particularly fellow nerds/geeks with similar interests. I want a smart gamer girl. 😉
Basically everything that I'm not - programmer, being able to defend herself, being able to cook something without burning down the house...
The only exception is religiousness - since I'm an atheist, I stay away from religious people, so if she's an atheist like me, I'll consider that as a pro. If she's a hardcore atheist like me - even better. :)When a woman can be nice, caring, and empathetic to a man and his struggles.
WHEN a woman can be nice, caring, and empathetic to a man and his struggles, that is. Or maybe I should say "If."Skills?
Planning skills are very attractive
Cooking skills
Cleaning skills...
Being able to show high levels of hygiene and dress well
Communication skills are sexy as F
Polite and professionalThe smile with just the corner of the mouth. When you know you’ve impressed them but they are still trying not to show it. Cracks in the cool-calm. Love that. I see that these days and it’s time to buckle my seatbelt. 😎
Nothing hahahaha
Oh wait their emotional jealously
Their poor way that they can’t drive
They way they spend money carelessly
The endless nagging us to death
Their abilities to not to anything
Wanting us to change while they do nothing to improve themselves1. A cute smirk
2. Pinning the hair behind the ear
3. Knowing how to dress well. A skill that many women these days don't know how to do.
4. A girl that is knowledgeable in many topics and loves to readBeing a gentleman honestly... if a guy is gonna help me to unload my hip thrusts pole he's definitely ×5 more attractive in my eyes..
Also being humble.Good cook, and peaceful attitude.
A wink from a man implys he more than likely wants to sleep with you. Only takes me 3 seconds to tell if I want. Ask your dad if you dont believe me.I wouldn't call it exactly a skill but I love it when women push their hair back behind their ear, like on a windy day or after they've bent over. It's such a simple thing but I absolutely love it.
Making me laugh, being good with his hands, I love bad singing but done with confidence, being able to cook, being well read
I really like a woman who can cook. Doesn't have to be a super-chef but her ability to make tasty meals is definitely a plus.
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