Why am I attracted to men who look somewhat sad and broken?

[Anonymous]

[SueShe]

It could be because you were once in your lifetime sad and broken. It could also be because currently you are sad and broken or you have been living with or known people that were close to you that were sad and broken.

You can related to their status and since you know what the feeling is to be sad and broken, you feel automatically attracted to them in either a platonic way or a more intimate way.

Nothing wrong with that. Sad and broken people probably need more love and understanding from those that are not in the same situation.

[butterly248]

Maybe something to do with how you were brought up.

[Avicenna]

That’s a question for a psychologist, but Id guess you want to fix them.

[Anonymous]

More importantly, why are you pretending to be a guy?

[Anonymous]

Like John Rambo

[Opinion Owner]

Is it?

[Asker]

I get what you mean but no

[Opinion Owner]

Oh ok, are you gay or Bi?

[Opinion Owner]

I mean is it like an empathetic attraction or romantic?

[Asker]

There’s this guy.. he’s obviously antisocial, rarely smiles at anyone.. he just seems detached and quite literally sad all the time and I’m so attracted to him?… so yeah I guess it’s empathetic attraction

[Opinion Owner]

So like you wish to be his friend? Did you try talking?