Why do I always attracted to an emotionally fucking unavailable men?

[Anonymous]

What’s wrong with me? My ex boyfriend exactly like that now i just met another guy he was all sweet great and then it’s starting to feel like a deja vu all over again. He seems pulling away.

[DrPepper12]

Some people like strays and DIY projects. Its good that you realize the concern

[Anonymous]

Because that's what you find attractive.

[sheikalana]

There's nothing wrong with you. If you're trying to date someone close to your age which as per your profile is mid to late 20s chances are guys are not yet looking for a long term relationship. Don't give up and give it a few more years you'll eventually find someone.

[Anonymous]

The reason why can be found in the book titled 'Mr Unavailable & The Fallback Girl'

https://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/my-books/mr-unavailable-and-the-fallback-girl-book-one/

[FunkyMonkee]

You're a woman!
Women have shit taste in men!! The guys that'd love and cherish them for the rest of their lives get completely ignored by them while they go after the incredible assholes!! It's been going on for CENTURIES!!

[DishLady]

That’s a great question. I just asked myself the same question this morning kiddo. Just watch for the signs and cut out early on when you see the first few red flags crop up.

[mobiusforniner]

Take a hard look at yourself. Attaching to unavailable people is reflection on ones internal trauma and/or abuse. This is true of both men and women.

[HawkPerception]

Change your filter maybe. Only then you'll find a decent guy

[Anonymous]

why do you even need an emotionally available man? to have him cry on your shoulder?

[Anonymous]

Time to see a therapist! Most of this stuff is rooted in childhood...

[TommyMountainFigure]

In what way is he pulling away from you?

[Asker]

Doesn’t communicate and answers on time.. leave for days before he even gets back and says he has stuff to deal with etc…

[TommyMountainFigure]

Have you asked him the reason for this?

[Anonymous]

You’re overdoing everything