I sobbed and cried in front of my boyfriend because he's traveling for a while & he told me im making it harder for him... what does this mean?

[Anonymous]

I will miss him so so much and i sobbed like a baby because i'll miss him so much. So he told me that im only making it harder for him. Yet, he never cried

[CalmUntilAbused]

Well... It means that He does not want to leave You as well, and the fact You're acting so emotional is making Him hurt even more inside. Honestly, it's pretty wholesome regardless of the pain, a sit looks like You truly love each other. As to why He did not cry... Man are trained since early childhood not to cry, it's simple conditioning.

[DubiousIntentions]

How come he isn't taking you with him? How long will he be gone?

[Asker]

Cause I have work and can't leave the office. However, he'll be leaving for work for 2 months and it's just unbearable to me. Was really embarrassing that I cried that hard to be honest. Surprisingly, he was shocked i cried cause it validated the depth of my feelings for him.

[DubiousIntentions]

Now you know how soldier's wives feel when they are deployed for a couple of years.

[Worst]

He obviously does not want to leave you right? You being visibly upset infront or him is making it harder for him...