Have you ever been someone's "cheat" ?

[Anonymous]

Basically have you ever been romantically or sexually involved with a person who is in a relationship/marriage?

And to what extent did the cheating go?

Yes, and I slept with that person

Yes, but we only flirted a bit

Yes, they sent me explicit pics but not much else

No I was never a participant in such an arrangement

[WhiteSteve]

Yes, and then she invites me to her house for this big party one day ahead of a 50 Cent concert, and she introduces me to this dude like “STEVE! Meet MY BOYFRIEND.”, with that look in her eye like “PLEASE be cool and don’t blow up my spot.” Ended up throwing a football around with the kid💀💀💀 Felt fucking terrible the whole time, lmao. It’s definitely way better when it’s just some nameless, faceless person. That was at the end of the semester and she left school after that, so it was at the end of its course anyway, we never hooked up again, but that was for sure awkward.

[WhiteSteve]

Oh, and sorry, yeah, I was clappin’ it, haha. 0/10, would not be that guy again

[Asker]

Gotta admit it takes a special kind of person to call up her sneaky link for a party with her boyfriend there. And she didn't even ask you to keep quiet beforehand just kindof hoped you would cover for her.

I'm curious about one thing: what where your feelings towards the guy? Did you pitty him? Did you mock him? Did you feel superior to him for having boned his girl?

[WhiteSteve]

Dude, it was fucking crazy. She didn’t even need to invite me, it’s not like we all had the same circle of friends. She could’ve just been like “my man is coming up this weekend, so I can’t hang out, and be cool if you see us together at 50.” Honestly, it wasn’t like we were much of anything. I had just hooked up with her one night when she threw a party at her house, I thought she was single. She had a roommate who loved black dudes, lmao, so she always wanted to go to the weekly Hip Hop Night at this one bar on Thursdays to meet someone, my chick was her wingwoman, and it just turned into this thing where we’d meet up that one night, and then she’d come back to my place afterwards for like an hour, and then she’d go home. See ya next week👋 She was just some chick I used to work with, she didn’t work there anymore, so it was just like “whatever.” I forget when I even found out she had a boyfriend, it wasn’t this huge topic. She had made some comment to me early on about how she probably wasn’t the girl I’d want for my girlfriend. I wasn’t quite sure what to say in the moment, so I just responded with the same about me to her. She just kind of excitedly goes “Great! Then we can just have casual sex!”, like she was glad we had that settled and I could be the side-dick without giving her any problems, haha. This probably only lasted like two months, at a once a week clip. I think the boyfriend was out of town going to school somewhere else, she probably saw him on weekends, but she was definitely kind of a freak, so maybe she just needed to get laid pretty much every day, and I was just one of the “weekday” guys on her roster, lmao. I don’t know of any other guys, but who really knows. At very least she was making sure the typical party nights were covered. She was a fun gal, but kind of a wreck, looking back on it. So hopefully she cleaned up her act or he found a better girl himself.

[WhiteSteve]

As for me…. I didn’t really have feelings about the guy, he wasn’t really in the picture. I guess I sort of vaguely knew she had a boyfriend but she never mentioned it. I would’ve felt worse and I’m sure I just wouldn’t have gotten involved at all if was a more prominent issue where we were ducking the guy actively. When I did meet him, it was obviously just internally awkward, and then when we ended up hanging out a bit and he seemed like a good guy, I just felt kinda bummed for him. But I think I was also like “we’re all like 21 years old at college, I don’t think we’re getting married to whoever we’re with today”, haha.

[NathanDavis]

nope...

but, you included the flirty situations in the options so, there might be the possibility that someone was flirting with me and I might have responded in the moment but just that... and I would have no way to really know if they were in a relationship or not, so... lol

not to my knowledge...

[Asker]

Well yeah of course we've all probably flirted with someone who was taken.
Harmless flirting kinda happens I wouldn't go as far as to call it cheating.
It gets to that point when there's actually intent to betray the exclusivity

[NathanDavis]

some "heavier flirting" could be considered as "cheating" for those affected

[Asker]

Yeah of course the line is very slippery between calling someone pretty and suggesting you would drink their bath water

[NathanDavis]

Belle is very pretty, for that kind of style

[Nikki1989]

Yes, but I didn't know he was married. As soon as I discovered the truth, I ended it.

[mandyfire98]

Uh yeah it might have happened lol. Sex was definitely involved.

[Anonymous]

Sure did smh! We were in a situationship before his relationship but he never told me he was dating someone so she started calling whenever we spent time together. Then I confronted him-snatched his soul & never messed with him again

[Asker]

"Snatched his soul" for some reason that makes you, anon girl on gag, a very attractive person 😅

[Opinion Owner]

Seriously though😂😂i was never a woman who got emotional over a man that I knew wasn’t trying to get serious with me BUT we should have enough respect for each other to be honest no matter what. So yeah I rode his dick till his legs shook & he damn near fainted after, even got him to eat pussy for the first time then dipped on him. 2 years later he showed up at my house unannounced then left his new number 😂😂

[Asker]

Not sure how much of a punishment that was... i can imagine he loved every second of it. Denying him more was the true blow.

That being said "situationships" are notorious for ending like that. I've been in a few myself and since they are not relationships neither party really owes the other any commitment or even an explanation.

I used to love the idea of free and easy fun times (and still do) but I gotta admit the ceiling is not that high and I feel like I wanna take more risks and get more serious about romance.

[Opinion Owner]

I definitely understand the no strings attached stuff is easy but gets old fast. It’s often hard to find people who are serious. Just hope for the best😊

[Billlewis]

Yes, but only a couple of times.