In relationships, are you someone who moves pretty quickly or takes things slow?

[Lisia]

I'm actually pretty fast 🥲 wbu?

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I take things slow,

takes time to earn my trust,

When I notice I might fall for someone, I try to shift my attention somewhere else to make sure, I won’t fall for him too fast.

(Not doing that consciously)

My attempts still fail in the end, if he didn’t give up by the time I am done shifting my attention, I usually fall in love too.

[Lliam]

Pretty fast. If she is dragging her feet about getting into an exclusive relationship, I won't wait around for long.
I have a low opinion toward people who need guarantees before getting into a relationship. You can't know if you are suited for each other unless you are in a relationship.
If we like each other and are attracted to each other, that's enough for me initially.

[clampfan101]

I want to take things at least a little slow, but at the same time I ain’t gettin’ any younger here. rofl It’s harder to take things slow as you get older, but I still need to be very sure she’s the right kind of person before going too far. Plus I want it to be romantic.

[Lisia]

Aw yeah romance is important!

[clampfan101]

So many people are leaping into strangers’ beds like it’s a hobby… (or even a competition…)
I need a relationship filled with friendship and romance.

[Lisia]

Yeah same 😊

[Beckybooboo]

I take it slower but when I do finally fall in love with someone, it’s forever! I still have some feelings for my exes. Not like, “I’d like to get back together” feelings but more like, “I hope they’re doing okay” type feelings. I even think about their family members that I became close to.

[Apple1996]

I move extremely fast. I told my husband I loved him 2 days after meeting him

[TonyMetal___86]

Wow, it seems that he seduced miss apple by promising her that he will buy her apples forever

[TonyMetal___86]

😂🍏

[Apple1996]

@TonyMetal___86 nah he just seduced me by having good dick 🥲

[TonyMetal___86]

What a naughty lady 😂

[Simslover92]

I move pretty fast too. My boyfriend had to slow it down for me. It took almost two years to get to this point where we are now. Now I want marriage and he's just warming up to the idea. He moves at a snail's pace while I'm like a cheetah when it comes to relationships.

[HawkPerception]

Honestly not proud about it, but I don't think I can take things slow. I fall for a girl pretty fast if I like them. After the first date, if we talk at length, I'd already ask them if they wanna make it official. I'm okay going at their pace for sex, but when I like a person I try to get into a relationship with them ASAP.

[Fabiloso]

I think there's a balance of slow and fast I do prefer. But most times it is safer to move faster I think. Better to just be in the moment than entirely too cautious or hesitant or distant because the mind runs off with this kinda shit too much. But there's personality traights that definitely determine how I want to approach anything with them. So its different with each.

[Wallythewalrus2]

I’m pretty quick. First time I lasted about 3 seconds! Before she even knew it started, I was already asleep. I’m working on it.

[Lisia]

Damn you improved

[Wallythewalrus2]

By 2 seconds! And I don’t fall asleep as quick, I do the cuddling thing.

[Lisia]

I'm so proud lol

[Beckybooboo]

I think Wally has a hard time comprehending questions. 😂 I saw the other day he was talking about how “unexpectedly attractive” he finds it when animals clean themselves. 😆

[Wallythewalrus2]

@Beckybooboo I just have a very short attention span. By the time I’m done reading the question, I forgot what the beginning of it was, so I just guess! I do alright.

[NathanDavis]

I've had it both ways, and in between... never too quick though, sometimes it was just very steady and the clicks happened right away too

[Lisia]

What's too quick tho

[NathanDavis]

exactly... I guess that's different timing for different people, lol...

in my case, it was three weeks or so... but in just the first week I already knew it was to be and going to go great (that first week we did hang out for hours almost every day) and then we just took a bit more of time to "confirm"

but it all clicked... and I already had the "experience" to speed up things a bit, lol

[Lisia]

Ahhh I get ittt

[etsylo]

i used to be fast, but now i take things slow. obviously this was due to lots of conflict within myself from previous experiences.

[Lisia]

Aww I'm sorry to hear that 🥺

[etsylo]

it's okay 🥺 i found a good man and honestly life is too short to not take risks

[Lisia]

Aww I'm glad to hear that! 💕

[DJB72]

It's over 20 years since I started a new relationship but I proposed on our first date. Is that too fast? (She said yes)

[Lisia]

Congratulations! 😊

[DJB72]

Thanks 😍

[Anonymous]

I've not been in one but I'm pretty slow. I think it's important to make sure there is something there before things start to develop but also because I have serious anxiety issues and some other stuff that makes going fast not a good idea for me.

[Lisia]

See that with boys I didn't like that much.. but if I crush deep, I act fast 💀😅

[Opinion Owner]

You didn't like them taking it slow?

[Opinion Owner]

I can get why you'd want to act fast at points if you Crush on them.

[Lisia]

Oh no they acted fast but rn I regret it

[Opinion Owner]

Ahhh okay that makes sense.

Yeah I can't act fast I wouldn't want to be pushy but also something like a first date to me is massively anxiety inducing and well there are things that I'd have to talk about before getting to intimacy in anyway or even possibly just sleeping over.

[Lisia]

Yeah but if someone is crushing on you, they won't mind your anxiety 😊

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah I can only hope so but. Well there are some other things that are more difficult to understand I guess, one more so then others tbh.

[Lisia]

Yeah I get that..

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah. I kinda worry that because of that other thing I might be to slow for a partner.

[Lisia]

They should accept you for the way you are <33

[Opinion Owner]

I hope so, some stuff isn't easy to talk about and I guess figuring out when.

Mind if I ask a question or two?

[Lisia]

Ask them 💕

[Opinion Owner]

Well do you think you should talk to a partner about it you have no experience at all. As I've never been on a date or anything. I've not even had an acceptance of me asking someone out.

And the other well the other is I've made the mistake of self-harm. And well is that a deal braker? And I think it would be important to talk about before a partner could see them if that makes sense.

[Lisia]

If you don't self-harm anymore, I wouldn't think that's an issue. And for no experience, it's best that you tell 'em.. but both of those things should never be deal breakers

[Opinion Owner]

Thank you, it's reassuring to know. Yeah I am working on that. I have been really good for a while.

[Lisia]

That's great to hear! 👌 keep doing what you do

[Opinion Owner]

Thank you, the goal is for a year and then I can get a tattoo to cover them. And thank you again for answering my questions on that. I really appreciate it.

[Lisia]

No problem 💕 I'm always here if you need someone to talk to

[Opinion Owner]

Thank you, I really appreciate that it's amazingly kind of you. I may take you up on that if your serious.

And I'm sorry for not thanking you sooner.

[Lisia]

Aww you're sweet!

[DeeDeeDeVour]

"Moderate"?

I hate rushing into things.

Yet, I don't like slow progressions.

[MikeTheBartender]

I generally try to have sex as soon as possible because I don't want to be with a woman if the sex is bad. The emotional stuff tends to go a little bit slower.

[Jerre]

I am faster as well, probably faster than you

[Lisia]

How fast lol?

[Jerre]

@Lisia Thank you for the Like

[Jerre]

Fast enough to make you want to have sex with me

[Lisia]

Dang 😂

[Jerre]

You would enjoy it and want to cum back for seconds, thirds, etc.

[Nikki1989]

I move very fast and I hate time wasters.

[Still-alive]

I definitely prefer slow. I want enough time to pass so we know each other so well that getting married or staying with them is like a no brainer. It takes time to get there of course

[bowenw]

Fast but try to slow myself down and be logical too.

[AydenHazor]

I typically move pretty quickly, but I'm aware enough of that to be intentional about slowing down some

[TonyMetal___86]

It depends on the person whom i'm with, better to not rush things so i don't fall facing the floor 😄

[Friendlybro79]

Somewhere in the middle I suppose. I don't rush but I'm not a slow poke lol

[love_conquers_lust]

I don’t know, stuff just happened at its own pace.

[LunarEclipse433]

If I am really attracted to someone I may act a bit fast and it may scare some off. When I really like someone, I REALLY LIKE SOMEONE!!! LOL

[Staximus]

Slower than frozen peanut butter running uphill

[BaronReagan]

Well, in my past relationships, I was pretty quick lol but now that my life has changed and I feel attracted to men, I'm going to take it slow.

[Anonymous]

What is your ethnicity?

[Lisia]

Half Russian and English (with other random ethnicities), why?

[Opinion Owner]

You look cool.

[Lisia]

Thanks

[Opinion Owner]

You have a Mediterranean look, too. Maybe you have some Albanian.

[Lisia]

I have Balkan genes too and 7 countries out of the Balkan are Mediterranean or something

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah, I can see that. Why do a lot of Mediterranean women have a chill personality? I love being around them for some reason. Not just to date but just to talk to them. They're always so chill.

And they hang out with their families a lot; even the ones who are older go out to the movies with their siblings and parents. A lot of people stop going out with their whole family after a certain age.

Most people just hang out with their husbands or wives and barely see their parents and siblings. But I see a lot of them always make time to hang out with their cousin, brothers, and sisters.

I always get a sense of community and family vibes when I talk to them. Why are they so chill?

[Lisia]

I'm not sure 😅

[Cutegirl06]

I take things slow.

[Kaneki05]

Fast of course.

[dolemite58]

in terms of like sex or getting serious? 🤔

[Lisia]

Both

[dolemite58]

if we click and have chemistry then i don’t see the point in taking it slow with sex, i do take getting serious slow tho cuz i think it takes a while to really see how girls act once the honeymoon phase is over

[BoobMan]

Once I'm in, I'm all in!

[scooogy]

2 years minimum, for 20 years now 🤷‍♂️

[LEGENDARY4200]

Pretty fast lifes too short

[Anonymous]

Glacially slow.

[riverrat3]

I was usually too fast

[lovepuss69]

harder, better, stronger

[Julie4]

I take my time

[ChicoFromThe305]

Slow poke 🙃

[Anonymous]

Pretty fast
Let's go!

[dudeinohio]

I usually go fast

[Kelly6]

Very fast

[LavLavLuv]

I take things slow

[Z1pTD]

Maybe a mix?

[Worst]

Don't know

[vicphilips]

Same here

[Slim57]

I can do both

[Anonymous]

Slow.