How would you react if your son were dating a transgender woman?

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integrale77 · Accepted Answer

I would have no specific issues with it after all it's his life.

I would however remind him that I would out of respect use pronouns she/her but would only see a facard of a woman and her biological gender would still be male.

I am very much of the opinion trans women should not take part in biological women's sport. And biological women should not have to worry about there space being invaded e. g. biological female toilets or changing rooms by someone claiming to be a woman. The reverse is the same with male spaces.

patrick994 · Accepted Answer

Personally, I would not interfere in my children's relationships, they once they become autonomous, of age, can choose the partner they like the most.

Personally, I would never go out with a transsexual woman.

IslaTheWitch · Accepted Answer

His life, his choices, his consequences. Why should I interfere? I enjoy too much the close relationship I have with my kids to break it because of my own preferences. I wouldn't date transgender man, but who his partner is, is not my business.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

If he is an adult there is not much I can do about it but to be honest I don’t believe in the idea people born male can be a woman or people born female can be a man.

Lliam · Answer

I wouldn't allow his partner into my house or go anywhere where they were present. Nothing in the world would convince me to acknowledge that person's existence.  My son would make me sick.

pathfinder69420 · Answer

I love my son. His love life is his business. I'd step in if the woman was toxic or dangerous, though. I'd do that anytime, no question. We already have enough layers of control in our lives and relationships should not be one of them.

Al_Musafir · Answer

He's up for a good counseling session. It's not right in anyway for men to be into men... Men of any form.

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

I'd be confused, as neither my son, nor women who used to be men, actually exist. Trannies are still the gender they were born as, even post op, and I don't have any kids.

RavVid · Answer

Heard a funny story about this very thing. The father didn't notice and it was a complete surprise to him.

LazerBean · Answer

I'd probably ask him if he's aware he's dating a man

BourbonAndBacon · Answer

I taught my kids to do whatever makes them money or makes them happy. If they're happy, I'm happy

Tim2nice · Answer

It wouldn’t change anything for me. My son’s still my son and he can do whatever he wants as long as he doesn’t hurt anyone.

JacobJordan · Answer

No son of mine would do that because he would know that is a dude

Unit1 · Answer

Fine by me. I'm not one to torture needlessly.

OfDeath · Answer

I would just leave him alone. There wouldn’t really be anything I could do about it

iFarted · Answer

I wouldn't care, my children can date whomever they wish as long as their partner was a good person.

Enginn · Answer

I wouldn't like it because its not normal. If he didn't realize she's transgender then he deserves to know the truth.

msc545 · Answer

The heart wants what the heart wants. It's not my business to interfere in the lives of others.

Imaguyandagirl · Answer

I will never have a son but I would be happy if I even got a girl ):

KrakenAttackin · Answer

I would vomit into a trash can and wonder where I went wrong.

Anonymous · Answer

He's an adult, it's his business. I'll still be there for him when his relationship goes tits up.

dolemite58 · Answer

id accept that my son is dating a biological man therefore he’s a homosexual.

Sabretooth · Answer

I've come to change my views. I'd be alright with it.

Anonymous · Answer

My first thought would be, "does he realize it"?

ImHere22 · Answer

Ask when do we get to meet

JustinTheGreat · Answer

I wouldn’t care

FunkyMonkee · Answer

If that's what he's into, go for it!

Drumlin2001 · Answer

Is he happy? Then I don't care who he dayes

Anonymous · Answer

None of my business.

roy_ricky09 · Answer

There's the door. Get out

Anonymous · Answer

I hope you aren’t doing this.

OddBeMe · Answer

As long as he’s not asking for money.

TiaNour · Answer

He’s gotta deal with the consequences lmao

pickles77 · Answer

Id ask him why he wants a fake woman

Nice222 · Answer

As long as he is happy. I don’t care.

Socaljp · Answer

I would cut off his balls

Jmmmfi4 · Answer

NOT WELL

Anonymous · Answer

He would just be my gay son

Charliefretz329 · Answer

Worried

jimmy2 · Answer

That gay

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