At the end, people always come back to those who love them back. Do you agree with this?

[Reemaa]

I don’t think people are able to love someone who doesn’t love them back for years. They may love them for months but there always come the time when they feel lonely and need someone who loves them back. People love attention. Do you agree?

Totally true

No, i loved someone who doesn’t love me back for years

[AmeerX]

I definitely disagree with this. I did it for someone for whole 3 years and it just wasn't like that. My best friend did it for a girl and she said her parents didn't agree and it didn't happen.

A beautiful woman I write to sometimes waited 15 years for her man and he didn't marry her.

Another girl did something like that and again it didn't happen.

It's something from the old age that people used to wait long years for love ones. I blame the instant message and social media for destroying that beautiful thing. People used to be much more loyal and honest back then, now if you tell a girl to wait even for a month with no contact going to fight on borders she will 90% get a new boyfriend of simply just cheat on the man. Same for men, this is just crooked at this point

[Al_Musafir]

Till now, yes. But I'm open to be proven wrong. My last ex love bombed me. She used all the praise she could and we were together for a month till she left giving no reason. It really confused me and I craved an explanation for some time. 50 days later she texted apologizing and saying sorries. She wanted to give an explanation but I didn't want it. She wanted to come back but I refused her saying that if she comes back, she'll leave again. I respectfully insisted her on blocking each other and that she finds someone else in her life but she pleaded that although she understood my reasons, she wanted to leave each other unblocked. She's been blocked since.

[Reemaa]

Why you didn’t take her back?

[Al_Musafir]

Because what if she left me again? It was highly disrespectful for her to leave without giving an explanation and put me in agony. For a week, I was looking forward to explanations and she didn't allow me to talk. Finally, I made peace with the vagueness and decided to never be with her again.

[Al_Musafir]

Disrespectful of her*

[Reemaa]

She left you for how many days before giving you explanation?

[Al_Musafir]

50 days.

[DextroShade]

She obviously spent those 50 days chasing Chad, good on you for returning her to the streets where she belongs.

[Al_Musafir]

@DextroShade funny enough, she called me Chad and was amazed by how staunch in faith I'm. But then again, for girls like her, they are always open to someone better who never comes. They need to be shown their places.

[OlderAndWiser]

It is one of the tough lessons of becoming experienced in relationships, but no amount of love from you can make someone love you in return. And if the love isn't mutual, the "relationship" has no future.

[Anonymous]

Love is not your being happy or entertained. Love is a commitment to support and take care of you.

Only you can make yourself happy or find company to avoid loneliness. Do that not, and there is nothing your husband or anyone else can do about it.

[sage2021]

Just when you think the person that professes love to you comes back into your life, they are free to leave again. That's what happened to me after 3 years of waiting for him.

There are no guarantees when it comes to love 💔

[ObscuredBeyond]

The fuse has gotten shorter. But there was a time where I could hold out hope for someone for 11 years before finally writing her off.

[NathanDavis]

if is not mutual... then it is not love

not for me, anyway

[antelope51]

There are always exceptions to superlatives. ;-D

[RavVid]

Broadly I agree. But you need permission to love other wise it isn't love.

[Whitewulf]

All of the women I have loved. never came back

[Enginn]

Nothing is always. In the end it doesn't even matter.

[KrakenAttackin]

Positively not true.

[DreamLife7]

No..