Why don't some guys understand me?

[Anonymous]

Sometimes it is hard for me because I was diagnosed with high functioning autism and it is hard to communicate with guys at times and to keep a conversation going therefore they don't understand what I am saying sometimes because of my communication difficulties. Therefore I am left ghosted. They get annoyed at my autism symptoms when I try to communicate with them. Why are some guys not the nicest to autistic woman when it comes to trying to have a casual relationship?

[Oliverlogan263]

That really sucks. I can see how autism would make communication and dating way harder. Some guys are just jerks though honestly. Really not cool of them to ghost you or get annoyed at something you can't help.

It's on them for not being more understanding. Just cause you communicate differently doesn't mean you're not still a dope person worth getting to know. Their loss for judging you without even trying to see past your autism.

Don't take it personal - their actions say way more about them than you. Just focus on the guys who make an effort to listen without getting irritated. It's out there somewhere! And try explaining your autism upfront maybe so the good guys know what's up from the start.

You'll find someone chill who appreciates you for you. Stay positive - you don't need harsh dudes bringing you down anyway. Keep doing your thing, and know you deserve way better than guys who can't handle some communication difficulties. Keep your head up!

[Coolcow245]

Just keep being yourself and you will find someone who actually likes you.