What is worse getting married or having a kid with someone?

[Anonymous]

[Vesuvius87]

Having a child with just a boyfriend, with someone that hasn't even proposed is worse for a woman. You've already gave him everything, even a child without commitment. He's still not giving you his last name, sharing assets with you nor putting your name as the person making health decisions for him if he can't do it.

Then off course having a child with a random man is 100x worse.

[HelpfulWoman]

depends on each situation... kids are hard as fuck. partners can be hard as fuck to get along with.

[XXTruthfulOgrexx]

Both. I recommend all men get vasectomies day after graduating high school and concentrate on building financial success for early retirement and then worry about relationships and kids. We have way too many orphans etc that can use families. Go that route.

[Berethor]

Who said that those things are bad, feminists?

[jahaims]

Dying alone because you are afraid of the human experience is the nost scary

[LazerBean]

Those things are only bad for bad people.

[Anonymous]

Having a kid with someone.

[i_am_an_engineer]

Both