Are you good at reading people?

[el_Te_de_la_Rosa]

I bet nobody can read me 100% correctly.

Bard's suggestion: Judging your life choices or just plotting their next nap?

[NathanDavis]

very good yes, but I do have to get to know them first...

otherwise I am just guessing and assuming, however... my guesstimating game is also on point

now, reading yourself correctly? sometimes we don't even understand ourselves 100%, lol

[el_Te_de_la_Rosa]

That's very true. I listened to Huberman Lab. He mentioned that same as you. We always assume things based on our perspective.

[Anonymous]

I'm good at seeing a person's tendencies I think I don't need to read you. If I know your tendencies I know the path you're taking even if I don't know exactly where you'll end up. I know whether you're someone to avoid or not.

[el_Te_de_la_Rosa]

Hmmm... I'm kind of like that. Can you give me an example please?

[Opinion Owner]

Well like for example the last woman that came onto me. She only hit on guys already in relationships. Big red flag! So even if she had interest in me me, which she didn't. There was nothing in it for her. She didn't want any guy. She just enjoyed busting up relationships. I was like her practice. She did it just to see if I'd bite.
Now this is Amy obvious one though. Which is why I can give you so many details. I saw her in action before she got to me. I knew some people who knew her so I had a little backstory. Most women do their best to hide their true nature. They try to be whatever they think moves your triggers so you're lucky if you get one or two tips about her. You have to take that one or two tips and unravel who she is. Because thing all liars do is they can't keep their lies straight. A woman's TRUE nature will always betray her if you give her enough time. Give her enough rope and she'll hang herself.

[el_Te_de_la_Rosa]

Thank you for sharing. I might know someone who's like the woman you talked about. As far as I know, she's hurt from her past relationship because another woman did this to her. Then it's like she sought to revenge men and other people. That's sad. I really don't know how to help her out. It's better to distance myself from that kind of person.

By the way, I have this question for a recent situation. There's a young woman who told me she's interested as she's gay. Long story. But when I chatted with her for a while, I sensed her lies. She seemed to be a gold-digger. So I agree. We need some time to see the tendencies. Liars make up stories. And bad luck for them, I'm good at memorizing what people say.

[IslaTheWitch]

the better you know the person the easier it is to read small signals.

For reading someone you see for the first time in your life, you would probably need to have extended knowledge about body language.

[Somoneelse]

I don't read some people that easy, but most times I manage to read situations easilly. I'm a INFJ-T myself according to a Personality website. https://www.16personalities.com/ is it called.

[el_Te_de_la_Rosa]

Hello, planner. I am also an INTJ-P. Me too. It's never been easy for me to read mind. But actions are predictable. I can better identify patterns.

[sawno]

I'm an INFJ-INTP hybrid so since you are in to MBTI that probably tells you a thing or two. But reading people I am good at but not in the way you'd think. I'm not that good with facial expression reading since I am very reliant on my ears. Turns out thats quite an asset since people will try to put on a mask, but are not used to masking their voices.

[Fireguy17]

nope, still clueless.

[el_Te_de_la_Rosa]

The more mature you become, the less you think you know about the world. I have learned about this recently.

[ChicoFromThe305]

I probably would if I somewhat knew you.

[whereismyjohnny]

Yes. 🧐

[Anonymous]

Yes, I'm pretty good at it.

[shortster]

Not at all.