I would read several books about psychology, body language, and a wide variety of other topics. Study metrics on how to group people into, such as the Myers Briggs personality types or the Ennagram.
People watch in public. Notice every little thing about what a person wears. What people they're friends with. Their favorite drink. Follow them home. Steal their netflix password. Sneak into their bed. Get a restraining order. jkjk
u 30 years of observing, asking, noticing, opening up... wondering, pondering, sharing, caring...
the best way, in my opinion and experience is... to first open yourself to someone genuinely, and most of the times they will reciprocate to a point
introspection IS A MUST, the more you understand yourself and do "ready yourself" then the more you will be in a better position to "read others" too
s people are fairly straight forward if you watch and listen. a lot are not good at hidding behind masks 24 7. Guys show what trash they are fast online.
Tell a man who you want to date there will be no sex till the wedding and he will run in 3 months if you stick to it.
If not he is a winner or very manipulative for sex.
Read mentalities and desires first.
touch up on basic social cues.
Know them a little bit/talk/hang (whatever)/ etc.
Should make things a bit easier as far as accuracy goes.
For simplicity or something convenient. People are not always so convenient, for peace of mind or personal goals lol
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Eye contact and body language, also to guage in how they respond to kindness and opening them up without saying too much. People will talk to you without talking all you need is to observe their actions, how they treat others, how they react to others and not just yourself.
always, always watch actions over words. they will reveal who they truly are. they may take a big game about themselves but if their actions aren't matching up, they may not be a good person.
Body language is helpful, but look for unconscious behaviour. Pupil dilation, respiratory rate, perspiration, pulse. These are unconscious responses and particularly pupillary reaction can't be faked.
Don’t judge… Listen closely. They’ll open themselves and read themselves to you like an Audible.
I FIND IT SOMEWHAT INTERESTING I SUPPOSE. NOT ENOUGH TO READ UP ON.
BUT I DO WATCH THOSE CRIMINAL PSYCHOLOGY DOCUMENTARIES.
Smart men know to never date psychology majors or women who joke about hating men.
Tell them to get naked
No jewelry. I have nothing to prove.
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