How to read people?

[Anonymous]

I've attended 3 psychology related courses so far at uni and it's one of my topics of interest I study on my own whenever I have free time. Mainly because I got fooled many times. Also the inner workings of the human mind are just fascinating. So I thought there might be some (especially older folks or those with life experience/who also study or are interested in psychology) willing to share what they've learned.

[SixFootSexy]

I would read several books about psychology, body language, and a wide variety of other topics. Study metrics on how to group people into, such as the Myers Briggs personality types or the Ennagram.

People watch in public. Notice every little thing about what a person wears. What people they're friends with. Their favorite drink. Follow them home. Steal their netflix password. Sneak into their bed. Get a restraining order. jkjk

[NathanDavis]

30 years of observing, asking, noticing, opening up... wondering, pondering, sharing, caring...

the best way, in my opinion and experience is... to first open yourself to someone genuinely, and most of the times they will reciprocate to a point

introspection IS A MUST, the more you understand yourself and do "ready yourself" then the more you will be in a better position to "read others" too

[Asker]

Very nice answer ☺️

[NathanDavis]

thank you... it's been quite the road (=

[RoseySarah]

people are fairly straight forward if you watch and listen. a lot are not good at hidding behind masks 24 7. Guys show what trash they are fast online.

Tell a man who you want to date there will be no sex till the wedding and he will run in 3 months if you stick to it.

If not he is a winner or very manipulative for sex.

[Rosexøxø]

Read mentalities and desires first.

touch up on basic social cues.

Know them a little bit/talk/hang (whatever)/ etc.

Should make things a bit easier as far as accuracy goes.

For simplicity or something convenient. People are not always so convenient, for peace of mind or personal goals lol

[Rosexøxø]

That’s just my guess.

[Squatting_Slav]

Eye contact and body language, also to guage in how they respond to kindness and opening them up without saying too much. People will talk to you without talking all you need is to observe their actions, how they treat others, how they react to others and not just yourself.

[Still-alive]

always, always watch actions over words. they will reveal who they truly are. they may take a big game about themselves but if their actions aren't matching up, they may not be a good person.

[Still-alive]

talk*

[DJB72]

Body language is helpful, but look for unconscious behaviour. Pupil dilation, respiratory rate, perspiration, pulse. These are unconscious responses and particularly pupillary reaction can't be faked.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Don’t judge… Listen closely. They’ll open themselves and read themselves to you like an Audible.

[Jmmmfi4]

I FIND IT SOMEWHAT INTERESTING I SUPPOSE. NOT ENOUGH TO READ UP ON.

BUT I DO WATCH THOSE CRIMINAL PSYCHOLOGY DOCUMENTARIES.

[Asker]

yes you can definitely learn a thing or too from those but not much useful irl, you rarely come across people fucked up to that level, a lot of psychopaths are much more subtle

[Rosexøxø]

@Minahh valid point 💯

[KrakenAttackin]

Smart men know to never date psychology majors or women who joke about hating men.

[Jennz6]

Tell them to get naked

[Asker]

🥴🥴🥴

[SixFootSexy]

@jennz6
Hey, I was wondering... could you get naked please? <3

[Jennz6]

@SixFootSexy every night, I work in a Strip Club

[SixFootSexy]

Oh I've never been to one (outside of work). I refuse to pay money directly for sex or sexual acts. I think OF and strippers are devaluing and demystifying sex as a detriment to the greater society. Good luck out there.

[Jennz6]

@SixFootSexy thank you, a lot of guys will tip me

[CVNT5]

thats hot🔥

ok bby girl💕
get naked for me pretty pls🤤💕

[noohair]

No jewelry. I have nothing to prove.