Girls, the other day I asked my girlfriend for a nude (which I never ask) she got and still is so mad at me about it she won’t even talk to me?

[HockeyDude92]

I know her past history and a previous ex reached out to ask for the same thing. Her complaint was she feels like she’s only that picture and nothing else which she knows that I don’t think that of her, looks are material and I love her for all sorts of reasons. It just confuses me as to why I have been basically shut out by her

[SueShe]

What else did you expect? Did you honestly hope that she would jump up with joy if you ask her to be sexualized and objectified?

You know very well that those pornographic pictures will be lost forever in the depth of the internet after she sends them, right?

Also, what will happen to those pictures once your relationship is not longer actual and that you have separated, whether in good or in bad terms? Those pictures could be used as blackmail or they could find themselves on the internet in one of those dark revenger porn sites. I have my doubts that you would erase them ad aeternam but rather think that you would keep them somewhere.

She is right to be upset because she is aware of what will happen to them in the future.

[Nikki1989]

Why is a 31-year-old asking for nudes? Even weirder is it is your girlfriend. You should show her more respect.

[HockeyDude92]

Respect…you don’t even know me. Why is a 34 year old hopping in the comments to straight up judge?

[CurvyCandii]

What are you specifically asking.