My husband is so shy, and has high social anxiety, but he is the biggest cheater I have ever met. how could he be this shy but so confident to cheat?

[MamaGotta]

[Anonymous]

There are so many missing pieces of information here. How did you find out he was a cheater? Did he confess to you, did you discover it, or did you only hear about it from other parties? If he’s a cheater, then he’s probably not as socially anxious as you think. But if you’re hearing about it from other people, you need to be sure these people are telling the truth and not just trying to interfere in your marriage. If he is a cheater, why are you with him? Why are you choosing to stay? Was he a cheater before you got married?

[AmandaYVR]

No idea. This sounds very atypical. You tell us why. You know him.

[strateguy632]

impossible do not believe whoever told you he cheated.

[Nikki1989]

Most men cheat or at least think about it, and married men are the biggest offenders.

[Zestyassmf1997]

What I wanna know is why he’s still your husband?

[Booklover_90]

He’s fooling you.