Why would a guy NOT admit to cheating?

Question

In your opinion what's the point?

TheorionMage · Accepted Answer

To PERPETUATE the continuation of his circumstances...

There's an EXCELLENT 60's film about a wanna-be Cheater engaged to THREE college girls whom decided to invoke the ancient Chinese torture to make his 'deception' fit his crime.

FEW modern males are aware that you CAN die from TOO MUCH physical intimacies.

The movie is titled; "Three In The Attic" and in this movie, when EACH of the betrayed Fiancee's learned of one another; they decided to make his punishment FIT the crime.

They bound and hid him in a sorority's attic and forced him to 'service' EACH of them THREE times a day for a total of NINE times daily!

Historically, death usually occurs via dehydration and nervous exhaustion in around two weeks.

Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

He is probably scared of losing you , if he tells
You the truth he feels you will walk away and not want to be with him anymore. , cheating is a selfish guilty act and he might be regretting what he did , people cheat for a lot of selfish reasons so unless you have valid proof That he cheated on you it comes down to your decision , if you want to stay with him or not , A cheater will always lie because they know they are pieces of shit so without valid proof that he cheated on you he is going to keep saying he didn’t cheat on you for his selfish reasons. So it comes down to whether you believe him or not

Alyssa11 · Accepted Answer

He doesn't want to take responsibility for his actions. He wants to do whatever he wants to do without being accountable for it. Men like that don't deserve any time of day.

ShyKI · Accepted Answer

They don't want to handle the drama that's gonna come along with it, and/or maybe they think it's not that big of a deal to share 🤡🤡🤡

Anonymous · Answer

I dated a girl who almost constantly accused me of cheating. And no matter how much I said I wasn't... (and I wasn't giving her any reason to believe I was, either), I must have been. So I never admitted to cheating... in spite of what seemed like constant accusations, because I legitimately never did. I wasn't particularly secretive, I was often on time for dates, we were often together... and when we weren't, I had a pretty rotuine (but busy) schedule, so I'd be working or something legit. I wouldn't have had time to cheat if I wanted to (which I never wanted to). But I denied it because it wasn't happening, which of course, cemented it that I was but I was hiding it somehow.

hahahmm · Answer

Hardcore liars are like that because of how they grew up. It's a deep part of them. It's probably as hard for them to tell the truth as it would be for you to cut your leg off. Sometimes if you have proof & show them they'll admit the truth but not always. They can learn to lie less often but they're always going to be lying about something.

John_Galt · Answer

Because “just deny everything” is a tactic that works often enough that a lot of people use it!
Most women do not want to believe their partner is cheating... so if you just deny everything. Eventually they will convince themselves that your not!

“Cheating and lying are shitty things to do, I’m not condoning the things I said... I’m just giving one explanation to why guys lie about cheating”.

RemoErdosain · Answer

Cheaters are compulsive liars. My ex never admitted to cheating on me. After a while, I stopped bothering, and decided to just end it on the worst terms. Could've been a little better if she admitted it (I was still ending the relationship, no matter what happened, but I mean, there are ways and ways to end a relationship, even when there is cheating involved).

MecheD · Answer

Being honest it’s a lot of the same reasons women would never tell. I’d say more than half don’t because the partner being cheated on is the breadwinner out of the relationship. And the women/ men that they mess with doesn’t compare financially so they don’t want to start all over again from supposed rock bottom as most would say.

RingOfFire · Answer

Is this a real question?

If he admits to cheating, it's not cheating right? Cheating means something you do without your partner's knowledge.

Why would a guy admit to cheating and risk losing access to you? The idea is that he wants to use you for whatever he can and also use other girls for whatever he can get from them. That's what cheating is about.

worldscolide · Answer

either because he didn't cheat, or he still thinks he can get away with it.

Cataphract · Answer

Because he doesn't want to? Or because he's smart and he knows that as long as he denies it there will always be that 1% of you saying "maybe he's telling the truth".

serious · Answer

There is actually no point but no cheater would outright admit that, no wrong doer would ever admit their own wrong doings. Yes some people do but most don't.

TessCasie · Answer

Cause he knows you know it and he can get away with it. Just like no theif will ever say from their mouth “yes I stole”🤷🏻

iseekpinetrees · Answer

Because then he's guilty of something. And didn't get away with it. Causes more problems if people find out you cheated.

BCRanger10 · Answer

Because either 1) he doesn't want to lose his relationship or 2) maybe he actually didn't cheat.

Lizzzzz288283 · Answer

They don’t want to lose the person because they’re being selfish.

kkirk4442 · Answer

Perhaps can't face the situation, so he lies, in an attempt to avoid dealing with his bad actions.

miniD · Answer

Bc he trash:) can even admit if he left the toilet seat up

MsTaniaUncensored · Answer

I imagine they believe they can get away from it if they keep denying it.

Flower7 · Answer

Because not admitting to it gives him a greater chance of being able to keep all the women.

Jenom · Answer

Either he really didn't cheat or he just can't be honest (with himself and others).

Hangry22 · Answer

Because he loves the thrill of cheating on the main chick

ItsTheNephilim · Answer

He still thinks that not admitting to it will work and/or is gaslighting the girl.

AnthonyJ01 · Answer

My ex lied about cheating, but one thing she did not do was make to her little bitch wear a condom. She was acting different and I was getting phone calls. Just has to check a couple things and we'll, she is just a used up ho.

winterfox10 · Answer

Cheating is generally regarded as a super shitty thing to do... Does anyone really want to known as a cheater?

Unit1 · Answer

What do you expect from cheaters? " Hey baby, i cheated on you with Ashley "? Come on now, that's just ridiculous.

sheikalana · Answer

Because he doesn't want to lose the person he's dating/in a relationship with.

Solstice777 · Answer

What good is it to admit to that? He is fucked if he does so why would he admit to cheating? Nobody would if they could get away with it.

Liam_Hayden · Answer

1. Because he didn't do it. 2. Because he did it but is trying to con the girl so that he can keep using her.

John_Doesnt · Answer

Because it's so easy to get away with it. And women like being cheated on.

EyesOfGod · Answer

Why would a woman not admit that she's cheating? Because loosing that dick won't feel good.

RohitLakra · Answer

They don’t want to lose the person because they’re being selfish.

Anonymous · Answer

Because he wants to eat the cookie while keeping it

Maspolomas · Answer

So he doesn’t get caught by you he can get some from you and her

Lunatic1 · Answer

Because they think they can get away with it and they are a terrible person usually.

OddBeMe · Answer

She caught me in the shower wasn't Me i even had her on the sofa wasn’t me

AFellowWeeb · Answer

I think most cheaters are girls, they just simply hide it better

Anonymous · Answer

Why would he admit to something that will literally cause a shit storm on his life when it literally wasn’t anything but sex

Anonymous · Answer

Cause at times it’s hard to admit and don’t wanna hurt you further. I done once though for me it was just a kiss.

Anonymous · Answer

And why admit it unless the other person can prove it?

Anonymous · Answer

Is it really cheating if you are not married? Whats wrong with a little community cervix... i mean service.

JosyJosy · Answer

They don't want to be the bad guy

Agape93 · Answer

Bigger question is, why would he admit it?

JennieF · Answer

Why would he admit it?

ThisIsMyOpinion · Answer

Because they want to keep both girls.

blondfrog · Answer

Does any human ever admit to it?

Agem123 · Answer

So he can continue cheating.

Smilingqueen2 · Answer

He don't want to lose u

Wise4myage · Answer

He's probably in denial?

Paul09 · Answer

Well cheaters lie, so.

StrikeJam · Answer

For the same reason, why a girl wouldn't do it.

Joeharbor · Answer

So we can keep doing it

GG_15 · Answer

cause theyre cowards?

Shroomyshroom · Answer

"It wasn't me" - Shaggy

Anonymous · Answer

Once a cheater, always a cheater.

Anonymous · Answer

How strong are evidences that he really cheated?

Anonymous · Answer

Nobody wants the consequences of cheating.

SavageGirl101 · Answer

Cause he’s a punk

Defne35 · Answer

not to lost anyone

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