Can a guy stop cheating?

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I am with a man for about a year. At the begining of our realtionship he told me that he didn't want to hide anything from his past. So he told me about his previous realationships, including marriage (which he isn't now - divorced). When He was married after 3 yeard they had been separted for 3 months- in this time he was in a brief relationship with another women then they went back together. He also cheat on his wife with some girl (not long realationship). He also told me that for about 10 years he was in love with a women, and after divorce he was very in love with her and he was in some kond of relationship with her for 4 years ( she didn't want him at all or love him even she never kiss, hug or enything in that matter). He told me that he will never cheat but I dont beljve him even that he knows how it is ( his ex wice cheat). Is oit pościele that he tells the truth and that he didn't love his 10 yo love

Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

Yes, if he realizes what he did was wrong , he can change his ways if he chooses to , Did he explain to you why he cheated on his exes? Most people that cheat or have cheated will be honest about why they cheated or they wouldn't talk about it at all to you , so he is being honest with you, by letting you know he did cheat before. But it does nt mean he will cheat again , Yes Cheating is a selfish decision, but we can’t stop someone else from being selfish , and we can’t stop someone from cheating on us , all we can do is focus on ourselves and treat someone the same way that we want to be treated in return , if someone chooses to cheat on you? That’s their choice and their decision and they will more than likely suffer the consequences of their actions if they choose to do so. So don’t sweat his past , Just treat him better than his exes did. The fact that he is being honest with you , is a great thing by him being able to admit to you that he was wrong. The people to look out for , are the ones that can’t admit they did anything wrong , that’s the person you want to stay away from because they always think they are right and never wrong. I got news for you , Not one person on this planet is Perfect period

D_Bone_Steak · Accepted Answer

Honestly, it depends on the woman. Some women basically make me want to cheat. Other women give me no such desire. I've noticed over time, the women I did choose to cheat on, basically deserved to get cheated on. See I was cheating, but I don't get caught... I'm simply better at cheating than the female side. I think my subconscious brain picks up on the cheater vibes and since she's going to end up cheating anyways, I just start cheating.

Now on the other hand... chicks that never ended up cheating on me just never got cheated on by me either. Strange right? I'm a good dude with good women, but when shit is just off... and I just know... I think it puts the idea of cheating in my head, to begin with. The idea is basically..."I should be fucking other girls" with a dash of "She's probably cheated and I just don't have proof, or she's going to" with her own behavior being how I know she's going to.

I've never been wrong in that department. I trust my gut and the educated guesses always come true. So if you don't give him the cheater vibes, like girls' night out and random vacations with the "friends"... he's probably not getting cheater vibes or even desires to cheat. ... If he's like me that is.

PeachyPie93 · Accepted Answer

He always can stop since cheating is just someone choosing to be a goof. The matter is, will he? No one knows and you are in your 30's so do you want to really be wasting the last of your youth with a guy who would cheat on a wife within 3 years.. or do you want to try to find a more loyal guy who you don't have to second guess all the time.

Flower7 · Accepted Answer

You should end the relationship before you become another woman on his long list of drama.

And no, guys don’t stop cheating. Especially in your case. If he would cheat on a WIFE, he would definitely cheat on someone who’s just a girlfriend.

Love Doctor Brad · Accepted Answer

As a relationship coach here to help, I'm all about giving love a chance! People can definitely change with enough introspection, commitment, and effort. It's crucial that he has acknowledged and talked openly about his past. But if you have doubts, it might be whispering "red flag" to you. Trust is the backbone of any healthy relationship. So, keep an eye on his actions rather than his words. It's always possible for someone to evolve, but trusting your instincts is key. Keep those boundaries strong, and remember, love is about feeling secure. 😉

texascollegegirl · Answer

I'd think about your expectations. Yes, it's possible for some men to stop themselves from cheating, but really only because they don't have the opportunity. I have found that even the most committed boyfriends and husbands can easily be tempted and do things they didn't think they would do. I've certainly found that with married Blacks who have the big dicks I want. A lot of Black women kind of look the other way, realizing that a man who has a big dick like that has a lot going on, especially if he is stereotyped and misjudged the way big dick Blacks are. So it should be okay for him to share his gift and to get what he can for example from white girls who contribute to his racial healing by giving him the sex he needs. If he's really specail, it's really not so important to hold a man and block him from enjoying himself and others enjoying him.

Shiprex · Answer

If he's been doing it almost every relationship he's had then I say there's perhaps a lack of respect for women he's "won" over. That would suggest there may be a strong chance he will carry on unless there's enough of an incentive from her or commitment from him for him to not do it.

SolitarySolace · Answer

Can a woman stop cheating? I've been cheated on in every relationship I've had in the past so I've stopped having relationships. Of course it must mean I pick the bad ones all the time which makes it my fault. Women love telling me that because they hate the idea of being the issue themselves

SeriouslyNotSerious · Answer

It's like stopping an addiction without a proper rehab. He has to be in touch with his  deepest  spiritual self in order to be a changed man—which is rare.

ProbablyClueless · Answer

Yeah. The guy can stop cheating, but he has to resolve whatever caused the personal emptiness within himself.

HelpfulWoman · Answer

lmaooooooooooooooooooooooooo any fucker who really thinks a cheater is worth their time DESERVES jack shit. it's dumb as fuck

Kelley1 · Answer

Men have sex but they don't cheat. Only women cheat because only a woman can convince her mate that her child is also his child.

EmmaMary · Answer

The simple answer is... A Leopard Never Changes Its Spots .

MrPiercedD · Answer

As long as he will get everything what he needs at home then he will stop cheating. It might be that he doesn't know what he wants or is too shy or too afraid to admit that.
Usually it's not enough sex at home or not kinky enough sex at home.

FreyaRed · Answer

Hope for the best be prepared for the worst.

Anonymous · Answer

Nope, once cheater always be cheater. Even Stephen Hawking cheated on his wife, can you imagine a normal guy who still can walk, talking and use their body normally?

HighValue · Answer

Cheaters are immoral. People's morals generally never change.

Alex-Snow · Answer

It depends on if you can really trust him. I have heard the expression "Once a cheater always a cheater"

es20490446e · Answer

Wrong question: "Will this person change?" Right question: "Is it worth the risk?"

Anonymous · Answer

No men are made for cheating that is all we like to do. Cheater is just another fancy word for winner.

Staximus · Answer

Are you going to pull your head out of your ass, or do you want to be the next woman he cheats on?

genericname85 · Answer

The question should be: why did you not ditch him yet?

Anastasia06 · Answer

No cheater never change they’ll keep doing if you take them back cause they know they be no consequences.

Crazzyyworld · Answer

As long as there are women who are con artist$$ they won’t stop because All men r dumb ass fuck.

Pohjolan · Answer

Of course he  can . Cheating is a choice. Whether he actually wants to is another matter.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes. I make sure my man doesn't have any jam in his jar to cheat.

KrakenAttackin · Answer

If he has resolved the issues that drove him to cheat, maybe.

Whatelse36 · Answer

I don't think they would stop cheating. Once a cheater forever a cheater

Nikki1989 · Answer

They can but they rarely do.

Danny_dan92 · Answer

If he learns his lesson. Yes

MannMitAntworten · Answer

Men and women who cheat, will always cheat again.

CarolinaGirl5 · Answer

Are u retarded? he doesn't like u

chocolatetwopointo · Answer

he will cheat on you 100%

kaucky1 · Answer

If who you're with changes looks variously

WowGIrl4ever · Answer

Nope

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