Is he cheating? Why would he hide it? Why doesn't he care?

[Anonymous]

My fiance and I have been together in total 6 years.. we moved to the city we in now 4 years ago. Recently he's been acting weird, very stand off-ish and when I try to communicate with him he tells me im being defensive and he's done with the conversation. I had a strange feeling recently because things he doesn't normally do.. he's doing. So.. I checked his phone and on Snapchat he's messaged a few females and has ALL females added and no males.. and a lot of them live near us... I know if I bring it up he'll get angry and tell me its none of my business.. but.. I feel sick.. mind you.. from messages I could see that the female hasn't opened he hearted her story about coming to see her at her auto dealership job. But others of course I csnt see... it goes back 4 months... my best friend accused him of cheating a while back because her coworkers claimed he kept hitting on them when he would go out drinking at their bar... he swore they were liars and we moved on.. now im not so sure.. help please.. what do you think? Also : he has 4 kids from previous I stay home and take care of every single day. while he works.

[Johannes09]

Instead of thinking that things you should come to straight point and ask him what's going on. Ask him if he is in any discomfort or tension, stress etc or in need of something. Casually for fun he could say something about girls on bars but I can't guess or tell what was happened and truth. And maybe giving heart to story of someone dealership could be for appreciation and nothing. However, I found it strange like having many girl in friendlist but none male. Therefore, it would be best step for your to ask him as neither I nor anyone else can tell the unseen scene.

[Anonymous]

There’s a reason why you’re still his finance going on 6 years. You’re a free babysitter, probably cook for him too, give him sex. What’s the saying go about not buying the milk or the cow when you can get it for free. That’s you. I’m pretty sure he’s cheating, or trying to cheat physically if he has t already.

[Anonymous]

He didn’t care to make it work with the women he had those 4 kids with, I’m not surprised he eventually lost interest in you as well. You aren’t stupid you see the signs, there’s more than enough evidence you’re being played. Sorry. Start making your exit plan.

[Genzet]

Looks like it

[jahaims]

He cheats for sure

[In_Trance]

Have you asked him?