How would you react if your significant other admitted they've caught feelings for someone else?

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smne35 · Accepted Answer

That's not a good easy thing to take in man. That's a painful thing right there, but if she's sure that she feels that way for someone else then you have two options you can stay. Try to keep her but it ain't going to be the same man and you're not going to have no trust in her. Whenever she's gone in your home you'll be wondering if she with him and you know she will be. I'm going to tell you what I would do man. I was just make sure you love this guy. Really really love this guy and it's got loves you and just let it go man. You don't need it. A woman who has feelings for another man that's not healthy and it'll never work no matter what you do. I'm sorry to say it like that but that's the truth. I've seen it so many times and in most cases it don't work out between. You know the two that ran off together because they realize one another that what they miss at home. What they had before. See people think they're always think the grass is greener on the other side until he get over there and realize there's nothing but weeds and they don't want to come crawling through the weeds back home. Think about it. Think long and hard about it. Take a week or so and think about it man. Talk it over with her. That's the best thing to do but a s*** her feelings of that strong for this guy and just let it go. You know what they say to catch your butterfly. Let it go if you comes back. It's meant to be that's specified so I can give you. Don't try to keep her and find it. It's not going to work. You still going to make things worse and you're only going to torture yourself even more

Phoenix98 · Accepted Answer

Well I mean at least she’s being honest guess the only things you can do now is work through it together or decide wether to break things off or not.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Damn thats tough. I guess just break up. Why stay with someone who doesn’t feel that same anymore. You can’t do anything about it anymore 😒😒😒 I would probably disappear, delete all social media to not hurt. And probably cry until I meet someone else

MemeSupreme · Accepted Answer

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billmunch · Answer

I wouldn't be angry. These things can happen, so guys shouldn't get all twisted over it. I think men need to be supportive and understanding when women cheat. I would let her date him for a while. Chances are it'll fizzle out after a few months. If it turns out that she wants to continue dating him seriously, I would allow her to have a side guy. It's no big deal if a woman has a side guy but if they got serious. I would insist that she marry me if she also wants to continue seeing him. That way, I'm the #1 guy. However, so long as we don't break up, I could probably be okay with being the new side guy.

JayBones · Answer

I said I hate to hear that. I guess our time has come to an end. I moved out that night and skipped town for a couple of months. I came back and a couple days home I come home from work and she's sitting on my bed (my pops let her in, as I was staying with him until I got back on my feet) she was crying saying she wanted me back, yelling at me for leaving. Said she forgot all about that other guy. She gave me a blow job and then I got in the shower. When I got out of the shower she was gone. Turned out she didn't forget about the other guy, she was living with him. We're still friends lol. I talk to her almost every day.

SolitarySolace · Answer

Wouldn’t be surprised honestly. It’s happened in every relationship I’ve had except they never admit it. I end up finding out she’s been fucking someone else because I won’t fuck her. I guess love doesn’t exist when all women give a fuck about is sex. Leads me to believe that women gain power through sex. Otherwise why else would they have sex?

Dbtr99 · Answer

Happened to me this month , he broke up with me and I haven’t heard anything since. It was online, so it wasn’t as serious as if someone had done that irl, cuz If it was irl id probably not have been as nice.

MailyMartinez · Answer

Id honestly be surprised and hurt. It would make me start overthinking and questioning if i was good enough for him or not and where i went wrong and what she has that i dont have and what makes her interesting etc yk?

Nikki1989 · Answer

Not a problem. That is a part of life. At least he told me about it.

Jessica405 · Answer

Goodbye! Close the door quietly. Don't come back. EVER!

Zestyassmf1997 · Answer

“I think we should see other people.” Those exact words.

godfatherfan · Answer

How would I react? She would instantly no longer be my "SO". Once a cheater, always a cheater.

JacobJordan · Answer

Relationship over she is welcome to exit from the house and find her own place to live she has a place to live because she is with me.

sage2021 · Answer

I wouldn't take it well at all. I would be crushed and heartbroken 💔

selfish-and-cruel · Answer

don't forget your toothbrush from the bathroom

FunkyMonkee · Answer

I'd rush her to the hospital for a cure! Feelings is a TERRIBLE disease!! And a terrible song!! Why would ANYONE with feelings be allowed to walk around freely in public so others can catch it? They should at LEAST have to wear a face mask!!

KittygosMeoWW · Answer

I’m sure I’d be hurt but I’d rather they tell me so we can both move on

thegreenyogi · Answer

Accept it and end the relationship.

aceleon · Answer

fuck them one last time and dump their sorry ass.

Nehir · Answer

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jahaims · Answer

Drop them on the spot

HawkPerception · Answer

Leave immediately.

XXTruthfulOgrexx · Answer

bye,

laly520 · Answer

would be so sad

Anonymous · Answer

Bye.

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