Not just they think they're beautiful/handsome, but they're attracted to that person. I don't mean in the sense they want to break up with you for that person, but something like "I love you, I want to be with you; but I'm also attracted to X".
Are you sure it is not just a misunderstanding? If I pointed out an attractive girl and asked, "are you attracted to her?" And he said "yes, I am attracted to her" that is stating something obvious! We are primarily attracted to nice looking things, especially people. Stating, "yes, she is attractive, but I want you and I chose you (meaning regardless of all the hot/attractive girls, it's you I want). You are my person and I love you" is being honest. He isn't dead. Unless it escalates, and isn't just a passing by thing, I'd let it go.
I would break up with them. If they just think this person is attractive, fine, we can all appreciate a good-looking person. But attracted-to suggests that they aren't completely satisfied in their relationship with me and want to go looking elsewhere. And "attracted-to" suggests an active interest in that person. So it would be the end of the relationship for me.
Depends on the situation. If it's another woman, I don't mind sharing. If it's a guy, is her attraction to this other person equal or stronger than it is to me? I'd rather her tell me straight than keep it a secret, so I can act accordingly.
The most pressing question is if this attraction rises to the strong probability, rather than mere potentiality, of unfaithfulness.
Unhappy, heartbroken, very unhappy especially during holidays. Knowing this isn’t old and being emotionally influenced by holiday season. This is not a sudden hormonal hard-on thing.
Opinion
14Opinion
I would assume they are looking for other options and want to explore other people. Honestly for most people I think that would be a rap on the relationship, it would make then feel insecure and probably worry when their partner will eventually want to call it quits or cheat.
Being attracted to someone and doing something about it are two different things. I would value a significant other that is a good communicator and feels safe enough with me to tell me absolutely anything….. without judgment. Of course I would also want the same treatment too…. It makes for an exceptional relationship.
Let them go. I don’t own them. They are free to love me or not.
Of course that would be painful, but it’s far better than living something forced. If they fell out of love I too would deserve better.
How would I feel?
How else do you think?
Nothing that a tragic broken glass bottle in the butt with a zip tie around their neck accident wouldn't fix. She can cry on my shoulder... and then I'll smash.
Like I don't know, but I wouldn't set my long term goal with that person cause him saying that would make me think he is not happy in our relationship and is looking else were and I would feel like my efforts are not working.
It would be over. What the hell do I look like? Second best option? Second THOUGHT option? He may not want to break up but I will. Goodbye.
I will think they’re not attracted to me anymore that’s why they’re attracted to someone else so I’ll just move on and looking for someone else who attracted to me
I would feel like shit honestly, I would become a little bit insecure...
Been there a few times, it sucks mostly because you end up comparing yourself to them... Trying to figure out what that loser has that you don't.
Hasta la bye bye. Go have fun. Homey don't play that.
You sound like you’re trying to get him to break up with you
Personally I would leave. It means they are looking elsewhere or maybe bored with the current relationship. Either way that's disrespectful and shows how little they value you. I would be gone
I would straight feel like this relationship should end.
I feel like I needed a new partner who is attracted to me. Next question.
I would say I don't want a relationship with a slut.
I think its ok to be with you and date her...
Or break this relation and let him try
I am breaking up with her
I would be heartbroken
It wouldn't bother me at all.
You can also add your opinion below!
Most Helpful Opinions