If you and your girl were breaking up and you told her you love her, her response was it's hard for me to love someone that yells at me. Is it over?

[sage2021]

I believe if you profess love to someone but you yell at them so loud it makes them cry and begs you to stop yelling, isn't love to me. But what is it?

[Anonymous]

You can love someone you're mad at and vice versa. But, it can also cross the line to verbal/emotional abuse.

My parents and I yell at each other all the time, yet at the end of it all (I think!) they love me.. or maybe they're just putting up with me I don't know lol. But anyway, yeah, just because someone does that, it doesn't mean that they don't care for you or like you, even love you. Maybe they are just mad and need anger management. However, if you think it's enough to break up, then hey, you got the right not to be in a relationship with someone. Like my ex for example, even though I still wanted things to work and still liked him, he thought a better solution was to end things. I guess people have different tolerance and loyalty/dedication levels. Maybe he also didn't love, like or care about me as much as I thought.

[sage2021]

@Anonymous
I was married to the sweetest most handsome, talented guy when I was 20 and he was 19. We were married for 4 years and had one good healthy argument once a year to clear the air. But we live peacefully.
10 years later I got married again to some hillbilly from Tennessee and we fought about everything! He was a big jerk! Still, I never cheated him, I divorced him instead.
So I have been single since 1990 - 34 years now.
My last boyfriend asked me to marry him several times over the 6 years we were - whatever we were 🙄. But I didn't want to get married again. I don't think it would have settled him down with the ladies. He loved the ladies! 💋💃♥️

[Kelly6]

@sage2021 yes it is over

[Kelly6]

@sage2021
Thanks for Mho

[FunkyMonkee]

It could be over unless I was stop yelling at her. So far, in all my relationships, I don't think I've yelled at her more than once or twice! And that was ONLY because she said or did something to REALLY piss me off.

[Surely]

I don’t want nor like verbal abuse. So I wouldn’t expect anyone else to put up with it either!
Look for someone to appreciate you!

[Surely]

Thank you for the MHO!

[LaurenM1997]

Nope I wouldn’t put up with that it’s verbal abuse and not nice at all I don’t like being yelled at and won’t tolerate it

[exitseven]

Bearmts the heck out of me. Maybe his parents acted like that and tonhim it is normal behavior

[HappyWoman34]

Emotional abuse. Anger issues, on his part.

[ImHere22]

It’s over