Long term girlfriend blocks and says its over and that she's never loved me after a big fight?

[mattburge]

we just come back of holiday, we was very happy together, and a couple days after we got back we had an argument over something petty, and it turned into a big fight, we both said nasty thing to one another, she broke up with me, I broke up with her, the argument ended with no winner, just us both annoyed and angry, so she's blocked me on everything after the fight, and thought nothing of it as she's done this before, I then received a message through the night saying "she loves me so much, it'd felt like her hearts been ripped out" I didn't see this till the morning, where I replied I love her too and I'm sorry, from then she hasn't give me the time of day, saying I left her heartbroken through the night, and she doesn't love me anymore and she can't stand me and everytime I send her a message I just get, " it's over I don't want you anymore. she won't have a conversation about it or anything, what do I do, I love her so much we was very happy together

[SueShe]

What she needs is time and that is what you should give her.

True love does not just disappear from one second to the other but it takes a long time and a lot of negative inputs for it to progressively fade away.

What you can do is to write her a letter. One of those old fashioned ones that is written on paper with a pen (you do know what they are, right?) and send it by snail mail to her.

In this letter, you can much better express your feelings than on the phone or with a text. It is more difficult to fake something when you put it down in writing and if she sees that you took the time to write to her, she may rethink the entire situation.

[GoldenCage]

The level of immaturity that this question has is mind blowing. But I guess this is what young toxic love looks like so yeah.

Don't be with someone who can't be mature about handling conflicts and leaves you, blocks you, and say mean things to you or even shout or throw things around.

Remember people will treat you the way you allow to be treated. Also, she obviously like playing mind games and being chased. I mean this whole thing is just a mess. And a perfect recipe for cheating excuses in the future.

[boggboss]

Yes u was clearly so happy together that u block eachother and try your hardest to hurt eachother

[boggboss]

Maye how can u call this a happy relationship when your broken up she is doing the same stuff u was doing when u was together blocking you partner frequently is not a sign off a relationship working

[kyleelyn199723]

Honestly speaking, I think you just need to let her do her. She will be coming running back when you aren’t begging for her to reply. It’s the pettiness of her wanting to be prideful and wanting to be the winner.

[Anonymous]

Welcome to relationships with women. 😂