This is manipulative BS is to make you behave the way she wants you to behave. She needs constant reassurance that you care about her and love her etc. and that's why you get all this BS.
You need to speak to her and tell her exactly how you feel so that she understands what it does to you. Everything is about her and what she needs. It appears to me that your feelings are being ignored. You can't stay in a relationship where your girlfriend is threatening stuff and making you stay out of fear that she will carry out said threat. She is an emotional high maintenance girl which is probably due to her past. You two need to communicate your feelings, tell her that this is not an argument but a discussion and lay it all out so you can move forward. She won't change her behaviour if you keep going back to her.
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Yes you need to move on.
Whether she realizes it or not she is manipulating you. This is not a healthy relationship for you or her and it will not improve. She needs to sort out her issues before being involved in a relationship.
The sooner you break up the better. When you do break up with her she will try manipulating you again by saying those things she said before do not listen to her and ignore her completely! Otherwise you are just encouraging her to act like that.
Break up with her. She says those things to grab your attention but in a wrong way. She isn't right for you and this doesn't sound normal to me. This sounds very toxic and the longer you stay the longer it will hurt you. Don't worry about what she says because she knows if she says those things you will fall for it, this time don't, keep your head up and move forward.
Just let her go. My ex did that to me. It sucks and all I could do at the end of the day was respect his wish to break up for my own sake. Its not worth your time to make someone stick around if they so unsure. It will only make you sick... literally.
you guys need to sit down and have a proper talk about everything that's been in inside your head. Something is going on with her that she's not comfortable talking about, try to break that guard and see what's up?
You should probably break up. You're enabling her behaviour and probably don't have the temperament to straighten her out.
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Man, I'm a girl but this girl is making your life complicated. Why don't the two of you just take a break? Give her what she wants and see if it's what you both really want. If she's not making you happy or making you grow, it's the best thing.
she is such a drama queen. she could move on if she find someone else to do it. Praise her a lot like you are good at acting, or you should be a model or you can be a star constantly boost her self esteem. then she will find someone crazier than her.
Start talking to each other more... you have to start listening to what she says and she has to start listening to... or... You two need to spend more time together.
Oh wow, she must have seriously low self confidence. I think if her behaviour is making you suffer, you should break up with her.
She sounds manipulative
It's a mad mad mad mad world. :/
she does it to fill her worth
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