
If your partner snores what would be your solution to getting a good night sleep?


If my partner snores, there are a few solutions I could try to ensure a good night's sleep for both of us. Firstly, I might gently nudge them to change positions, as sometimes a different sleeping position can alleviate snoring. Additionally, using earplugs or playing white noise in the background could help drown out the sound of snoring.
In Islam, the Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) emphasized the importance of kindness and consideration towards one's spouse. Therefore, if my partner snores, it would be important for me to approach the situation with patience, understanding, and empathy. I could kindly discuss the issue with my partner and work together to find a solution that ensures both of us get a restful night's sleep. This might involve trying different remedies or even seeking medical advice if the snoring persists. Ultimately, Islam teaches us to prioritize the well-being and comfort of our spouses, even in matters as mundane as snoring, and to approach conflicts with compassion and mutual respect.
Are you are a convert?
@pass_the_celery98 no, n I am not.
I couldn’t tell by the frizzy hair, I guess it’s my Pakistani roots kicking in and thinking I haven’t seen a girl with that type of hair so I was just confused sorry lol
The solution would be to discover the underlying cause and pray about it. Through prayer my friend discovered her snoring was due to an iodine deficiency. When she took iodine and selenium all snoring went away. Other peoples underlying causes may be different.
On another note concerning one of the responses below. It seems that Muslims don't read their own book. I cannot pretend not to notice this...
I refer to these comments:
'In Islam, the Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) emphasized the importance of kindness and consideration towards one's spouse'
And this:
'Ultimately, Islam teaches us to prioritize the well-being and comfort of our spouses, even in matters as mundane as snoring, and to approach conflicts with compassion and mutual respect. '
Then all I will say is look at the video below and the following verses: 'Your women are your fields, so go into your fields whichever way you like. . . . (MAS Abdel Haleem, The Qur’an, Oxford UP, 2004)' Does this sound kind and considerate to anyone...
The Quran in Sura 4:34 says:
'If you fear highhandedness from your wives, remind them [of the teaching of God], then ignore them when you go to bed, then hit them. If they obey you, you have no right to act against them. God is most high and great. (Haleem, emphasis added)'
Female Muslim UNCOMFORTABLE With Islam's View of Women [Dialogue] Sam Shamoun
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Xnav8wevcyEI've said it before and I'll say it again...
if I can sleep through Mexican weekend parties from some neighbours... I can sleep through some snoring too no problem, lol
lol,
Snoring is comforting to me so I wouldn't do anything besides snuggle up next to them and sleep
wow never heard that one before.
You are a catch 😀
@Light_beam haha thank you 😊
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Thankfully, that has never been the case.
And even though my nose is broken, I sleep very quietly. So nor I nor my partner or friends who slept next to me had any problems with me.
So, not sure, what I would do.
My SO cannot stand my snoring, so she says. She sleeps in the guest room.
I developed the ability to fall asleep before my partner hits the pillow :P
Once I'm asleep, there's little to no risk of being woken up by snoring, gunfire, fireworks, whatever :D
Wow that is a blessing lol
@coachTanthony my ex snored as hell :D human beings can adapt and develop new useful skills :D
This is me hahaha
Pick them up and put them in the car in garage, lol I'm kidding, it depends how loud it is and the sound it makes but I'm a deep sleeper and really don't hear as thing drinking a warm tea before bed lessens chance of snoring, but not really much you [can do except try all t=hose ga]dgets for sale
Get a Sleep Number bed and slap a Cpap on his yap. If that didn't work an elbow to the ribs might work then. In extreme snoring he might get kicked out of bed to go sleep with the dog on the couch.
It depends, I can eventually sleep through anything. It's not something I would push on anyone but to me I just feel like you're kinda a pussy if you can't fall asleep because of some noise. I know it's irrational but it makes me fall asleep 😂
This one girl I dated had a really small nose and I used to think the way she snored was kinda cute.
Another one I dated snored much quieter but it oddly was way more annoying.
Die in misery.
Honestly though, I'd probably look for solutions online, whether it might be a sleeping position issue or a blocked airway. I'd try to get them to try different things.
There is a correlation between obesity and the likelihood of snoring, so I would highly encourage my partner to workout.
My husband snores sometimes. Luckily not every night because I can barely stand it I have very light sleep. When he does I usually snuggle him and comfort him and he eventually stops. Sometimes people snore depending on the position they sleep in.
a sleep divorce.
My wife never believed me when I would tell her how bad she snores.
I even recorded it and she still wouldn't accept the fact that it was that bad.
After a few years she finally did a sleep study, it was so bad that they stopped it.
Her stats were way worse than I thought.
She got a C pap and lost weight so that helped out a lot.
Get rid of the partner. Complete elimination of the source permanently solves the problem.
LOL.
I rarely have trouble sleeping with it, but in the off chance I do I might go to a guest room. Maybe 6 or 7 times a year. I end up in the guest room because I was kicked out of bed by the 5 year old more often.
Usually it’s their throat not being extended enough. I bought a neck pillow turned it around backwards where the cushion was under my chin. Kept my asophagus open and snore free.
Eventually I guess I learned to sleep that way. But the wife knows to nudge me and tells me to get the neck pillow back on if I slip.
Make sure you’ve got a spare rooms go to sleep together, the moment the shooting starts, you hop into the bed in the spare room.
My grandparents did this and they lived happily together since their 20s.
no, a sleep divorce just means you no longer actually sleep together in the same room, not an actual divorce as in so long, I'm gone. You are still married.
We did that years ago, my wife would not believe me how bad she snored, I even recorded it, and she still didn't believe me that it was her.
3 years later she had a sleep study done and it was way worse than I even imagined.
It was so bad they couldn't even finish the study.
We still sleep apart, she uses the c pap machine once in a while, but she has lost a lot of weight and that helped, but she still snores at times, and because of my position on the department my pager goes off at all hours of the night for me to respond, so that wakes her up.
That way we both get a good nights sleep.
Gee , I'm not sure , never had one who snores ( that I know of ) , I sleep so dam well here , I honestly dont think it would matter too much , so much better than in Australia , I think its the exposure to the sun.
We have an adjustable base bed that remedied the situation in most instances for me. Otherwise, she requests that I go to the guest room.
Usually raising the head up, helps a little bit unless you have a serious problem problem.
He'd have to sleep somewhere else. Like I know I sound like a bitch but omg I can't stand snoring. I can't even sleep when I'm sick and my chest makes that whistle sound when I breath. But man snoring is awful for me.
Snoring would be a dealbreaker for me tbh. I can't sleep even in the same house as someone who snores. It drives me insane.
Slowly and unnoticeably changing the angles on his side of the bed usually works for me.
According to him, he does the same thing when I'm snoring beyond what he can tolerate.
Hubby snores, at first it kept me awake. Now when he's away for work I can't sleep, its like a ceiling fan or background noise that I am used to.
Get them a CPAP. Snoring is a symptom of sleep apnoea, which can be fatal in extreme cases as they actually stop breathing for up to a minute.
If they sleep all night but wake up tired that's a symptom as well.
My partners snores and guess what? I don’t have a solution. I just sleep. It might not be a solution for rough sleepers but I talk in mine and that bothers him sometimes.
I got used to it but I would say for those that can't get used to it to try to go to sleep before they do.
I sleep hard so it probably won't be a problem but if it was, I'd grab a pillow and blanket and sleep on the couch. I don't see the point in waking someone if they're sleeping good.
If it's bad enough I would have to sleep in a separate room. Otherwise, if it's light, I just have to fall asleep before they do.
Sometimes closing their nose holes for a second or two works. If that doesn’t work, I’ll just deal with it, it’s her after all. It’s like the All-Drains policy, NO chug goes left undone.
I'd never sleep again. I would not be able too. Usually people snore on their backs. Not sure why they don't try other sleeping positions. I've woken myself on the rare occasions I ever snored. 😂
Haven’t had that happen, yet. Earplugs, maybe?
I just nudge her a bit, it helps. luckily, not too bad and she's easy to be next to.
My mum either goes to my brothers room to sleep or her boyfriend sleeps on the couch in the living room
I can sleep through it no problem. If not…earplugs
Snoring isn't my issue lol. It's being woken up after he comes home from work past 1 am and having dogs 😭😂
i hate how perfectly you described that lol like i literally can hear and picture it in my head
The joys of shift work 🙄
I’m the one that snores but I would try certain things to stop it, maybe a different bed , or sleep in another room. If it’s sleep apnea, then maybe try to get it fixed
I hav gotten used to it so i dont really mind anymore
I nudge her with my elbow and roll her over. Tends to work well
My wife and I sleep at different times- she gets our room, I get the guest room so I don't wake her up when I sack out.
I never found a solution. Each time it would get loud, I would just roll him on his side. So sweet - he would always apologize for it waking me up.
But I snore pretty loud too. He would just let me sleep and go in another room.
ear plugs or find a more permanent solution.
I don't think, I could date or be in a relationship such a woman. So there's my answer 🙂
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I've almost never slept next to my wife in the 20 years we've been married. I think people that do are weird.
It’s my biggest pet peeve but lol I have two little snorlaxes already so I don’t mind having another.
Been married 35 years I snore like hell. I sleep in a separate room. Problem solved!
Sleeping apart. You can try some of the workarounds but there's not a full solution. Elective sleeping together is a modern habit.
The opposite of what she is doing. I snore IF I sleep on my back... I learned to sleep on one side or the other. Simple solution for me... maybe him too?
wake them and tell them giving yourself time to pop off
I would cover his face with a large plush so he wakes up 😌
And then I would try to make him believe it’s not me so he thinks there’s some ghost hunting him 🤥🤥🤥😈
Have them get a sleep study for sleep Apnea and get them a CPAP. They have a medical condition.
I think snoring means restricted breathing so let's cut them some slack
Breathing strips
Nasal sprays
Screwing her is usually beneficial but when I’m not in the mood, I simply go to the other bedroom.
Earplugs for me temporarily and a sleep study and maybe a CPAP for my partner...
Just have separate bedrooms then both get a good nights sleep, problem solved.
Many have a blindfold over the mouth kink. Could try that 😝
Punch him in the gut
lol.
Buy them a CPAP machine. 😂
LOL I would think that machine itself would keep ya up as well
LOL.
Great question, some of my women snore, it doesn't bother me that much as I rarely sleep anyway
I'm single but I am told I am a very loud snorer. I think I just need to lose weight.
I move to the spare bedroom. When both my kids lived home I would sleep on the couch if my wife got too loud
Tell them to get a sleep test as they may need a CPAP machine for their health.
If you drink lasagna soup, you will never snore again.
There are many anti-snoring treatments from pillows that support the neck to devices you wear
My ex used tosnotelike crazy
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