Boyfriend said to me am I dumb?

[Anonymous]

Everytime I speak about an issue that bothers me and he cannot be bothered speaking about it he says to me ‘ shut up ‘ if I ask him why he hardly communicates he’s like ‘ shutup are you thick ‘ I just told you I don’t want to talk about it. All this is because I told him how can he say he loves me and not put any effort in. I had enough I rang him back and said go be with someone else I ain’t no dumb bitch you can speak to like that and hung up the phone before he could even respond. Because how rude is it speaking to someone like that when all they’re asking you is for your time and that I said you can never be too busy for someone you love. Am I in the wrong here?

[rosemilk]

break up! please! relationships fuel on communication and he's not giving you that. plus he insults you. you'll feel much better once he's out of your life. no one should belittle you like this or put no effort into the relationship. you deserve better, 100%

[LaurenM1997]

Please leave that poor of an excuse boyfriend and go find someone who will treat you better and speak to you better you don’t deserve the way he’s treating you

[Drew-1990]

No you are not, he has no right to tell you to shut up and call you dumb. Honestly if he didn't want to talk about something he could have told you so much better or asked you nicely not to keep pushing depending on what it is.

[jahaims]

You both sound stupid