I’m lost af lol?

[mswikoff]

I currently am in a relationship with a former ex of mine, who I became friends with after I got divorced, and we’ve been in the relationship for three months now, and when we are together, he’s fine everyone’s happy, and when we are apart, he likes to go to the gym and be with family and friends which is fine, but it seems like he doesn’t communicate. Well, I would text him have to wait for his reply for almost one to two hours whenever he’s available and I call him more than he calls me I’m not sure what to do, he doesn’t like opening up much due to past traumatic experiences and I open up a lot due to having an anxious mindset due to traumatic experiences. My boyfriend is 33 and I am 32

[Oliverlogan263]

Girlllll this sounds soooo confusing! Like wtf does he want? Ugh men can be so emotional unavailable sometimes, it’s annoying!

On one hand I get not everyone is glued to their phone 24/7 like us. And he probly just likes his space with family n gym time. BUT no way should you have to wait hours for a damn reply, that’s too shady!

And he needs to get better at opening up if this gonna work long term. Y’all both been through some ish so you need that emotional connection, feel me?

Honestly at this point if I were you, I’d have a serious convo with him. Straight up be like “look, I like u but this hot n cold shit gotta stop. Are we really together or just friends with benefits? Cuz if ur not down to communicate proper I gotta move on.”

Don’t let him brush u off either! Stand your ground. If he steps up great, if not boo his ass ain’t the one sis!! You deserve way better than some half ass half in boyfriend. Keep me posted ok? We’ll get through this! 💪

[Avicenna]

Well, how serious does he view this relationship as being?

[Alwayreckles93]

Wait he likes spending time with his family sounds like he is a mommas boy run girl. Red flag he is very unappreciated it should be all about you NOT HIS STUPID FAMILY AND FRIENDS. I can't stand mencwho put family first becore girlfriend or wife.

[rosemilk]

if it didn't work the first time, it's not going to work the second time. he has communication issues, which communication is a big thing in relationships. he can't even do that. you two just aren't compatible.

[Denvere98]

Sounds like you both want a different kind of relationship remember never settle it you aren’t happy then let the other person know and if it can’t be fixed maybe you would be better off friends

[Anonymous]

You can't forge a relationship with texting. Complete waste of time.

[boobliker]

never go back to Ex's

[Iron_Man]

Enjoy the moment see where it takes you