He calls me names?

[Anonymous]

Me and my partner have been going through some difficulties. I said to him In a conversation last night how he makes me feel intimidated sometimes and I worry to sleep at night. The next morning he was so angry he called me a “cunt” he has called me this other times before, then this evening we had a conversation for a while then I went to bed to read my book, and he become so enraged because he said I never make time for him via text message I said that I was trying to make time for him & then he called me a slut. He said the reason for this is because when he was going through my Facebook accounts to see who I was talking too he noticed I deleted a conversation from a make friend, I don’t have a life I barley go out the house & it’s always been like this but he keeps saying I am cheating when I have told him I’m not …..

[Oliverlogan263]

Woah, that sounds like a really messed up situation. No one deserves to be called names or made to feel intimidated by their partner. Calling you those kinds of slurs is totally uncalled for and not okay at all.

It's also super controlling and worrying that he's going through your accounts and accusing you of cheating with no proof. That's a huge red flag. A relationship is supposed to make you feel safe, trusted and respected, not scared or walking on eggshells.

I know it's hard, but this does not seem like a healthy dynamic. No means should make excuses for that kind of abusive behavior. You might wanna think seriously about getting out of there before it escalates further. You deserve so much better than to be with someone who treats you like that. If you need someone to talk to, I'm here for you. But please take care of yourself - that situation sounds dangerous.

[Massageman]

Time to "de-partner" the partner.

[slatyb]

You should call him a name -- "ex-partner"

[laly520]

time to start calling him "ex"

[OtterMan68]

he needs to be your ex. He does not respect you