What are red flags?

[Anonymous]

What are red flags your partners is controlling & narcissistic?

[wiltingrosepetal]

My ex was unable to recognise the emotional gravity of situations and would use logic as an excuse for any behaviour. One time we had a conversation where he said he wouldn't care if he killed someone, if the person deserved it. It bled into a conversation about death and morality.

So I ended up asking if he'd care if I died. He couldn't answer.

whip out the red flag everyone 🚩🚩

[itsclearlynicholas]

Rude. And she doesn't have a pleasant personality or she's like, controlling. And not even in a caring, helpful way like "honey you've had too much junk food, let's have a nice meal" I'm thinking more like "why am I always the one cleaning up and having structure" lol says me the man lol 😂🤔♂️😋😅 so there ya go. I wouldn't want a woman who's a lay-about or a drill sergeant or a whatever else either. Haha. Red flags, so many 🍒

[itsclearlynicholas]

I feel like I need a woman, who's not exactly like me, yet a woman who'd suit me. And that's harder than a lot of other features as much to find aka a woman who's not X pounds and only wanting my money lol 😭😆

[Cody2004]

Lack of self-respect is a red flag but fixable

Insecure not much of a red flag also fixable

Narcissist red flag I don't think you can fix that especially if it's a disorder

Always lies pretty much avoid

Does not take anything you say or anything you feel into consideration that's a red flag

Constantly wants nudes randomly- run away

Lol

That's my opinion anyway

[Valdemort]

When they don't know how to self reflect and blame all but themselves for any mistakes.
When they talk negatively about others without any reason or use someone's appearance as point of critique.
When they see feedback purely as something negative, solely as a form of judgement.

[Wise4myage]

Red flags in a guy or girl can be signs of narcissism, aggression, victimization, or even abusive behavior. By becoming aware of some common red flags, you can avoid getting involved in a toxic relationship. When you encounter relationship red flags, it’s a good time to pause and re

[Yannae]

If she blames anyone but herself for things going wrong and always wants things to go her way or it's a problem.

[OtterMan68]

JEALOUSY
always needs to know where you are and what you're doing
blames you for him getting mad at you
doesn't like you hanging out with your friends without him
belittling you

[prettygirl20A]

One read flag is jealousy , another red flag is if they want your social media account passwords or if they want to check their phone.

[Baublebar234]

Lack of accountability, no consistency, liars, terrible decision making, no motivation to excel in life.

[alice55]

Tell you to leave your job

tell you not to buy a car or want to drive you around everywhere

commznt on clothes

insult and critic others women etc

[exitseven]

If they act like they are the center of the universe and your life is mameaningless.

[msc545]

Insistence that they are always right, and an inability/unwillingness to admit mistakes.

[VV3ZZY123]

If they try to make you seem stupid or Incorrect all the time.

[DreamLife7]

With you being in your 30-35 yr range you should know better

[Elena_Stewart]

Blame, Blame………blame to the infinity

[Inbox]

“I am…inevitable!!!”

[Elena_Stewart]

Wdym?

[Inbox]

I was hoping you got the reference - it’s from Thanos in Avengers Infinity War.

[Elena_Stewart]

Damn😁😁

[CharlotteNoivern]

unwilling to give me contact details