What are red flags that aren’t normally shared?

[qupid911]

From manipulating to isolation to narcissism to gaslighting, what are some non mainstream red flags you know of?

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This is just a thought question, not an advice question for those that may think that there’s a deeper meaning to this 👀

[SteveSmith1985]

This is not a good way to go about this, if you're looking to match potential red-flags from your own situation. If so, do this the other way around. Rather than getting people to essentially "guess" and hopefully hit a match to your situation. Why not ask about those things you're thinking might be red flags? Usually though, if you think it might be a red flag, it probably is.

If... you're asking for general interest, then nevermind. 🙂

[qupid911]

It’s just a thought, no need to look into it. There are many mainstream red flags that are portrayed in movies and books and generally well known but there are some that aren’t talked about way too little

[jennifer_bloom]

Abrasive and aggressive speech, or uncomfortable interaction, this is so common, people ignore it, but I think it’s a huge problem in dating. Also a failure to share personal emotions, views and thoughts. My friends relationship with a Chinese guy broke down because he would bottle things up and not express his feelings until they were beyond his tolerance boundaries.