+1 yI think it’s rude and they don’t have good boundaries to be honest. I would say it’s a sign. But what kind of party? Are we talking a child’s birthday party or a alcohol and drugs and other stuff…. (Like sex) type of party.
If someone texts or calls after midnight especially if they know you have to get up for work and it’s not a emergency. It’s just so disrespectful. Unless two people decided text or call anytime. That’s one thing.
Sometimes you have to say. Do NOT EVER TEXT OR CALL ME AGAIN PAST MIDNIGHT UNLESS IT IS A EMERGENCY I AM SLEEPING AND HAVE TO GET UP FOR WORK IN THE MORNING.
The first time they do it. You can be a little nicer maybe. Unless they keep it up. You could say. I would appreciate it if you wouldn’t text me so late unless there is a emergency. Goodnight. If they do it again be a little more harsh. If they keep doing it. Sometimes you have to block someone’s number. If they wanna reach you they can email you or send you a social media message or mail you a letter.
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So my personal opinion I misread this was no cuz I thought you asked if I like them. It could just be honestly a drunk person thinking about you not even in that way you would have to talk to them the next day when they're sober.
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He probably likes you but not necessarily the way you might want him to like you. Generally if someone is messaging you like that while at a party, and potentially drunk, is because either they’re feeling lonely at the party/want attention or they’re looking for a hookup
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1.4K opinions shared on Relationships topic. After midnight? Nah. They like the attention you’re going to give them. But they don’t like you enough during the daytime to text and approach. Probably texted a few other girls and you’re the unfortunate one to fall for it. Sorry
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1.3K opinions shared on Relationships topic. Pie Eyed Often Says It All. xxoo
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Anonymous(25-29)+1 yProbably not.
1. They are drunk and truly like you but communication skill are a zero because they can only be vilnerable when drunk.
2. It's a dare. Honestly some people are fucked up.
3. If it's a dude texting you, chances are that after 12, they're horny af
10 Reply572 opinions shared on Relationships topic. He wants that 🍑 lol. I think if someone genuinely likes you will make time to contact you during the day.
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Asker+1 yI think they are just playing games because every time I try to get with them they have an excuse.
Asker+1 yAbsolutely. Do you think a message like that can give someone mixed signals?
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Lol happens to me all the time by guys, but I leave them on UNread, finally open long time later lol, or write something like “I bet you do” lol. Just own it because they honestly missed out. Don’t chase this guy, I’m sure he thinks he got you and can do anything he want esp since you had chased him.
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+1 yMeans they're thinking about you. Might mean they want to have sex with you. Usually very late night texting is booty calling texting. Drunk ish...
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+1 yOnly a woman would be stupid enough to ask this question 🤦🏻♂️
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Asker+1 yHow is it stupid? Obviously I don't have the answer that is why I asked the question
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If someone who isn't part of your family tells you they're thinking about you they obviously are into you. How stupid do you have to be to have to ask the internet that question? A toddler could figure that out
Asker+1 yThis person said that but that doesn't mean he is into me. How can he be into me if he never wants to meet up? He just said words but his actions don't match his words.
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🤦🏻♂️ guess you'll never know
+1 yNo, the party sucks and they are bored and are hitting you up for a ride home.
00 Reply4.3K opinions shared on Relationships topic. No, I think it just means they like your company.
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+1 yI'll consider it to be mindless drunk-texting.
If she's attractive enough I might follow up during some of the next days.00 Reply
Anonymous(30-35)+1 yNo bc I’ve been out at a party drinking and texted my ex something similar and HIGHLY regretted it in the morning 😂😂😂😂😂
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+1 yMy phone is on DND at 10pm. I won’t see it until morning. 😆🤷🏽♀️
10 Reply1K opinions shared on Relationships topic. If they aren't drunk or looking for sex, yes.
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+1 yThey're probably drunk so ask them again when they sobered up the next day.
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+1 yProbably. I would assume they’re drunk and the truth always comes out when you drink lol
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+1 yThey're probably drunk and I wouldn't take them seriously.
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Anonymous(36-45)+1 yHmmm most likely. I wouldn’t just text a friend that.
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Asker+1 yI agree 100% with you. Why would a person text you that but at the same time not like you back?
Opinion Owner+1 ySo you like him and he knows it? He’s a tease or wants to start something up like dirty talk or who knows. Thats annoying though. Either way you are on his mind…
Asker+1 yHe definitely knows because I told him verbally. He is clearly a tease like you said because his actions never match his words. He also enjoys playing games because he would send a message like that but never wants to hang out in person
+1 ySounds like they want a hookup, so yes they like you
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+1 yNo he's just drunk and probably laughing at u with his friends
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+1 yYes! That's a sure sign.
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Asker+1 yWhat if they never want to hang out? Are they sending mixed signals?
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No...
Asker+1 yHow are they not sending mixed signals if they send messages like that but in reality don't want to get to know you?
Anonymous(45 Plus)+1 yThey probably despise you and are just trying to get rid of you.
00 ReplyI would say yes even if they’re drunk. But if they don’t say it any other time then probably no.
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Anonymous(30-35)+1 yThey’re fishing if you’re going to drop the party for them or not
00 Reply597 opinions shared on Relationships topic. Looking for a hookup while drunk I reckon.
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+1 yrather are drunken :D
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+1 yCould be. You could just be hot.
00 Reply 3.6K opinions shared on Relationships topic. Not in the way you'd like probably.
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+1 yHe definitely doesn't hate you sweetie.
00 Reply1.3K opinions shared on Relationships topic. prolly drunk n messing around
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+1 yHe wants a booty call.
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Asker+1 yHe never wants to hang out
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Asker... right, but after the party he wants to hit it.
Asker+1 yI understand. What if a girl sends a guy that same exact text?
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She wants a D call.
Asker+1 yIf she wants the d call as you say but is not willing to meet up with the guy how can that be interpreted?
Anonymous(36-45)+1 yNot going to happen.
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+1 yThey may be liking u
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Asker+1 yOr it could be a drunk text or a hook up text
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Could be a hook up but not drunk... but u can work it out pretty easily
Asker+1 yWhat bothers me is he sends messages like this but never wants to actually meet up. Their actions never align with their words.
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Wht kind of messages do u mean...
Or they are drunk and looking for something.
00 Reply7.9K opinions shared on Relationships topic. no it means they're bored
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+1 yProbably but most likely they are drunk
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+1 yThey could be drunk 🥴
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+1 ycome on... lol
00 Reply 11.2K opinions shared on Relationships topic. Yes, they do
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Asker+1 yHis actions don't align with his words
Asker+1 yI apologize for that
Drunk texting
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+1 yYes.
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+1 yYes they do
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Asker+1 yI don't think they do because they never want to hang out
Anonymous(45 Plus)+1 y😆😆😆
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+1 yYes...
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