If someone texts you after midnight while at a party saying I'm thinking about you, do they like you?

[Anonymous]

[Summeroflove]

I think it’s rude and they don’t have good boundaries to be honest. I would say it’s a sign. But what kind of party? Are we talking a child’s birthday party or a alcohol and drugs and other stuff…. (Like sex) type of party.

If someone texts or calls after midnight especially if they know you have to get up for work and it’s not a emergency. It’s just so disrespectful. Unless two people decided text or call anytime. That’s one thing.

Sometimes you have to say. Do NOT EVER TEXT OR CALL ME AGAIN PAST MIDNIGHT UNLESS IT IS A EMERGENCY I AM SLEEPING AND HAVE TO GET UP FOR WORK IN THE MORNING.

The first time they do it. You can be a little nicer maybe. Unless they keep it up. You could say. I would appreciate it if you wouldn’t text me so late unless there is a emergency. Goodnight. If they do it again be a little more harsh. If they keep doing it. Sometimes you have to block someone’s number. If they wanna reach you they can email you or send you a social media message or mail you a letter.

[Cody2004]

So my personal opinion I misread this was no cuz I thought you asked if I like them. It could just be honestly a drunk person thinking about you not even in that way you would have to talk to them the next day when they're sober.

[Rei13]

He probably likes you but not necessarily the way you might want him to like you. Generally if someone is messaging you like that while at a party, and potentially drunk, is because either they’re feeling lonely at the party/want attention or they’re looking for a hookup

[Pinay_ako]

After midnight? Nah. They like the attention you’re going to give them. But they don’t like you enough during the daytime to text and approach. Probably texted a few other girls and you’re the unfortunate one to fall for it. Sorry

[Paris13]

Pie Eyed Often Says It All. xxoo

[Anonymous]

Probably not.

1. They are drunk and truly like you but communication skill are a zero because they can only be vilnerable when drunk.

2. It's a dare. Honestly some people are fucked up.

3. If it's a dude texting you, chances are that after 12, they're horny af

[bobalife]

He wants that 🍑 lol. I think if someone genuinely likes you will make time to contact you during the day.

[Asker]

I think they are just playing games because every time I try to get with them they have an excuse.

[bobalife]

Exactly, don’t even reply girl or if you wanna be petty.. play games back 😂 but I think it’s better to leave him on silence

[Asker]

Absolutely. Do you think a message like that can give someone mixed signals?

[bobalife]

Lol happens to me all the time by guys, but I leave them on UNread, finally open long time later lol, or write something like “I bet you do” lol. Just own it because they honestly missed out. Don’t chase this guy, I’m sure he thinks he got you and can do anything he want esp since you had chased him.

[Screenwriter]

Means they're thinking about you. Might mean they want to have sex with you. Usually very late night texting is booty calling texting. Drunk ish...

[SolitarySolace]

Only a woman would be stupid enough to ask this question 🤦🏻‍♂️

[Asker]

How is it stupid? Obviously I don't have the answer that is why I asked the question

[SolitarySolace]

If someone who isn't part of your family tells you they're thinking about you they obviously are into you. How stupid do you have to be to have to ask the internet that question? A toddler could figure that out

[Asker]

This person said that but that doesn't mean he is into me. How can he be into me if he never wants to meet up? He just said words but his actions don't match his words.

[SolitarySolace]

🤦🏻‍♂️ guess you'll never know

[Daniela1982]

No, the party sucks and they are bored and are hitting you up for a ride home.

[serious]

No, I think it just means they like your company.

[andreasderjuengere]

I'll consider it to be mindless drunk-texting.
If she's attractive enough I might follow up during some of the next days.

[Anonymous]

No bc I’ve been out at a party drinking and texted my ex something similar and HIGHLY regretted it in the morning 😂😂😂😂😂

[IDoNotConsent]

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Hope this helps.

[bowenw]

If they aren't drunk or looking for sex, yes.

[Ms_Facesitter]

They're probably drunk so ask them again when they sobered up the next day.

[JustinTheGreat]

Probably. I would assume they’re drunk and the truth always comes out when you drink lol

[sheikalana]

They're probably drunk and I wouldn't take them seriously.

[Anonymous]

Hmmm most likely. I wouldn’t just text a friend that.

[Asker]

I agree 100% with you. Why would a person text you that but at the same time not like you back?

[Opinion Owner]

So you like him and he knows it? He’s a tease or wants to start something up like dirty talk or who knows. Thats annoying though. Either way you are on his mind…

[Asker]

He definitely knows because I told him verbally. He is clearly a tease like you said because his actions never match his words. He also enjoys playing games because he would send a message like that but never wants to hang out in person

[deus_ex_sisyphus]

Sounds like they want a hookup, so yes they like you

[Booklover_90]

My phone is on DND at 10pm. I won’t see it until morning. 😆🤷🏽‍♀️

[DreamLife7]

No he's just drunk and probably laughing at u with his friends

[RefriedBeans]

Yes! That's a sure sign.

[Asker]

What if they never want to hang out? Are they sending mixed signals?

[RefriedBeans]

No...

[Asker]

How are they not sending mixed signals if they send messages like that but in reality don't want to get to know you?

[lovelyla7]

I would say yes even if they’re drunk. But if they don’t say it any other time then probably no.