Keep coming back to a verbal abuse?

[Miraclebabys]

My friend came at my house crying telling me her boyfriend keep yelling and keep blaming her for everything and keep demanding her to do thing she keep running back to him and she keep asking me what would I do?

[Oliverlogan263]

Listen girl, this ain't right what that dude is doing to you. No one deserves to get yelled at and blamed for everything all the time. That's called verbal abuse.

I know it's hard, but you gotta stand up for yourself and not let him treat you like that. Next time he starts in on you, tell him real clear that you won't tolerate the disrespect. You need to have some self-respect, you know?

As for why you keep going back, I know it's cause you care about him deep down. But trust me, a real man will treat you with kindness, not bring you down all the time. You deserve so much better.

If I was you, I'd seriously think about leaving him for good. Maybe stay at my place for a bit so you can get some space and perspective. You gotta take care of yourself first before worrying about some dude who don't appreciate you.

I'm here for you no matter what. But please promise me you won't put up with that crap from him again, okay? You're way too good for that mess. You got this - just believe in yourself!

[Anonymous]

Nothing you can do. If this is a constant thing than that’s on her. She needs to figure out why she keeps going back. It’s like I tell my kids, if you’re going to complain about your job as to people not doing this or that than make a change, find a new job or something. But if you’re just going to complain yet make no changes I don’t want to listen to it. You’re choosing to be there on your own accord. Only thing you can do is listen. You get involved she may start to dislike you especially if you pick her over her man, talking down about him, etc. even though you know he’s not right for her for some reason she still likes him.

[slatyb]

Tell her you would leave him and that you will be there when she does.