Girlfriend's aunt into me. What should I do?

[Anonymous]

I'm in an awkward situation with my girlfriend's aunt. My girlfriend still lives with her parents and her aunt, recently divorced, spends a lot of time with them. All started when she asked me to rub her feet and then hit on me when my girlfriend wasn't there. She now threatens to tell my girlfriend if I don't do what she wants.

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Could it be that my girlfriend and her aunt are into this together?

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Anyone had a similar situation?

[Oliverlogan263]

Woah dude, that's a pretty crazy situation with your girlfriend's aunt. I wouldn't know what to do either. On one hand, I wouldn't wanna make things awkward with my girlfriend's family, but on the other hand, her aunt is being super inappropriate threatening you like that.

I'd say you gotta have a serious talk with your girl and let her know what's going on. Tell her everything her aunt has been saying and doing when she's not around. It's not fair for her aunt to be putting you in that position. Your girlfriend deserves to know, and she should deal with her aunt about it.

Even if it causes drama, you have to do what's right and not keep secrets from your girlfriend. Her aunt is the one in the wrong here, not you. Don't let her aunt manipulate you either. Stay strong and stand up for yourself and your relationship. I know it'll be an uncomfortable conversation, but better to get it all out in the open now before anything worse happens.

Hopefully your girl will have your back and deal with her aunt. If not, then you gotta think hard about whether you wanna stay in that situation. Best of luck dude, let me know how it goes!

[Asker]

Thanks. I'm concerned her aunt might say I'm the one who started. But maybe I should talk to my girlfriend, yes.

I never did something sexual with her aunt but I went close. We met at my place once and she wanted me to be shirtless. She seems to be obsessed with my body.

[Asker]

Do you think they might be in together?

[Oliverlogan263]

Dude, I don't even know what to think anymore after that. That is beyond messed up if her aunt is getting that inappropriate.

I wouldn't put anything past her at this point. I guess there's a tiny chance your girl could be into it too, but honestly I'd be really wary of that whole situation. Things are getting way too creepy.

If I were you, I'd talk to your girl asap and be 100% honest about everything that's happened. Let her know you want nothing to do with her aunt and feel uncomfortable. Pay close attention to her reaction and how she takes it - does she believe you or seem off about it?

I might even bring a friend for backup so you have a witness, just in case her aunt starts claiming crazy stuff. Better safe than sorry with someone capable of that level of manipulation.

Honestly man, my advice would be get out of there as soon as you can. It's not worth staying with a girl if you can't even trust her family. And you definitely can't trust her aunt anymore after that behavior. Look out for yourself here.

[SueShe]

You know what?

Your (fake) story furiously reminds me of several other (fake) stories with a very similar scenario.

You know what?

I believe you are the same person that keeps on creating those accounts to ask questions about your aunty. Let me guess. You have a fetish about that topic and you would like us to believe that it is true.

Guess what?

We don't believe a word of your story. Pardon! I don't believe a single cotton-picking word of your story.

See you next time with your next account and your next (fake) story. Until then, best regards to your aunty.

[PeachyPie93]

Cool story bro.
I'm pretty sure you are lying for obvious reasons. How is it your fault? If she tells your girlfriend it will just make her the bad guy since she is the one being a hoe, not you.

[Asker]

I'm not sure.

She might say I'm the one started flirting and took advantage of her.

[PeachyPie93]

So instead tell your girlfriend first that her aunt is a hoe and trying to threaten you to do things for her.

[Asker]

Yes I might try to tell my girlfriend.

Her aunt seems to always find ways to be alone with me.

[PeachyPie93]

Don't be alone. If someone leaves, you leave too.

[Asker]

Yes of course. One problem is that my girlfriend trusts her so much and she's like her best friend

[PeachyPie93]

So then tell your girlfriend. Problem solved.

[Asker]

She also has my phone number and we met one time at my place

[PeachyPie93]

Oh really? Why did you meet at your place? lol
Block her.

[Asker]

Well I was curious and I met her. It was a mistake. Nothing really sexual happened but it was close. I was shirtless and she insisted feeling my muscles...

[PeachyPie93]

LMAO okay there.. what porno did you get this story from? 😂

[Asker]

There must be one!

But these are true events...

[PeachyPie93]

If this is true (which I doubt) tell your girlfriend. Didn't you ever hear honesty is the best policy? If you didn't fuck her aunt yet it can be forgiven, but if you keep doing bullshit things with her aunt and she finds out it is goodbye for you.

[Asker]

Thanks!

[EmmaMary]

Congratulations on winning a Troll of the day award.

[Asker]

What's the prize?

[boobliker]

tell your girlfrend as soon as poss

[Asker]

Yes.

But I'm concerned her aunt might say I'm the one who started.

Now she's threatening and I accepted to meet her at my place. It was a mistake. She seems to be very much into my body and I had ti be shirtless. I was close to do something more...

[Asker]

Do you think they might be in together?

[boobliker]

thats a gamble anyhow but it's best from you asap

[Asker]

She also wanted me to give her a footrub in front of my girlfriend who seemed quite amused

[slatyb]

So? Let her tell.

[Asker]

I'm concerned her aunt might say I'm the one who started.

They are like best friends

[Asker]

And she can probably tell her about a meeting we had at my place

[slatyb]

So what if she does? If your girlfriend is going to believe her and not you, then you are well rid of them both.