Why does an ex all of a sudden want to be back in your life and act as a friend?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

As an ex who did exactly that, it's because I was genuinely in love back when we where together, we just proved impossible to work together (unless I wanted a life of rowing, arguing and being told I'm the problem). She was always a good friend, and I remain her friend (and I'm friends with her new boyfriend too, we broke up in a healthy way).

[Asker]

We didn’t break up in a healthy way at all just all of a sudden just pops up out of no where.

[Opinion Owner]

So, for me, I broke up in a healthy way; I don't know my ex would feel it was healthy. I ran into an issue with her recently when I got back in touch (somewhat at random) and I ended up booking an afternoon off work to explain it to her (where I was remindeed why she's an ex). Though, we got a better understanding from it so it was worth the half day of trauma.

I just called to see how she was, and we just devolved into our old selves where not having a fight was impossible. Still, every fight, we got to be better friends, but father and father away from being in love.

Anyway, probably fine, just listen to what he wants and decide if your feeling it, or just enjoy the chat.

Though if your not over him, just don't take the call (unless you think he's redeamable)

[Anonymous]

I don’t know. Some people are just better at being friends than being in a relationship. And some people try to revisit past relationships when they haven’t had much luck with others.

[Ms_Facesitter]

He missed you.

[In_Trance]

Wants to smash

[Asker]

Not when you ask him
About the friend visiting him
And he states it’s none of your business nor does he ask you about your activities