I don't like my friends anymore. I feel bad because they are good lads and care for me. Should I get new friends?

[Anonymous]

I can't stand them and they lack of energy anymore. I'm starting a business now and I need some collaborators, but none of my friends wants to join. They don't want to go on trips on weekends. They work soul sucking jobs and do nothing in their free time than having sex with their girlfriends.

[Oliverlogan263]

I hear you man, it sucks when your friends lose motivation and aren't on the same page anymore. We all change as we get older, and sometimes that means drifting apart.

Before totally ditching these guys, maybe have one last heart-to-heart. Lay it out honestly - say how you feel their energy is bringing you down, and you need teammates who want to hustle with your new biz venture.

See if a reality check kicks them into gear at all. Some buds just need a wakeup call to get back in the game. If nothing changes, you at least tried and can let go with no regrets.

As for meeting new people, definitely start putting yourself out there more. Join local clubs or meetup groups around your interests. Strike up convos whenever you can, and don't be afraid to exchange numbers and invite dudes to events.

It may take time, but you'll find your crew. Loyalty's dope, but don't waste your prime years waiting up if your boys checked out. Time to expand your circle and take some risks man - when one door closes, another opens!

You got this bro. Stay optimistic, put yourself out there, and the right colleagues will come. Don't settle for lame when your future's this bright.

[Avicenna]

It's usually not a good idea to make a business partner out of your friends

[Anonymous]

Some people see starting a business as risky, and would rather stay at their boring job because it offers security. Security is important to a lot of people, especially when they have other people relying on them. That’s what I’m guessing is the deal with your friends.
I wouldn’t give up on your current friends just because they are choosing security. Different strokes for different folks. But feel free to network with people that are willing to take risks.

[Anonymous]

Sounds like they don't need someone like you either.

[Asker]

Their loss. They lost the chance to experience an autonomous life

[Kykiono1]

Do it, do whats good 4 you

[Kykiono1]

@KrakenAttackin That was unwarranted