Need an advice please?

[Anonymous]

I recently came out of a really exhausting relationship. Now there is this guy who likes me and he is nice but i just can't feel him. I told him about it and he seems upset ( not in aggressive way) when i keep saying no. I feel like i might lose out a good guy but my heart and body just isn't feeling him.

[bobalife]

Not sure why he’s upset if he’s a good guy lol. A good guy will be respectful in my opinion. You can tell him how you’re feeling for example “you seem like a great person and I do want to try. I don’t want to lose this opportunity with you, but it’s unfair for the both of us since I’m not ready for a relationship yet. I still need time to heal. I’m sorry. I hope you can understand.” I don't know if you wanna add about trying again once you’re fully heal? You’re not emotionally available, which is understandable.

[Account]

You are not losing something that you don't truly want.
What you truly want us his attention and the fact that he likes you.
You don't want him, you just like the feeling of being wanted by him which is a very human thing to feel and I don't judge you for that since you made your position perfectly clear and you explained to him that you don't feel it.
Don't drag him along though and promise him that you will eventually see him in the way he wants you to see him.

[Account]

Is his*

[Account]

Don't promise him* I can't type today because I broke my screen protector 😭

[JacobJordan]

What advice are you looking for. You are doing precisely what you should. And destroying his life just so you can not miss out on a good guy isn't fair to him now is it. You have to get your heart and mind squared away first.

[boggboss]

How are u missing out on a good guy when u are not into him in the first place

[sheikalana]

Listen if you're not feeling him you can't fake it. Imagine a guy dating you just because he thinks you're sweet and good to him but is not really into you. Would you be okay with that? Probably no. This guy needs to understand that. If you said you're not into him multiple times and he doesn't accept it delete and block him. There's no need to feel bad.

[myloveforuisinfinte]

Say no and move on, if he don't listen block him. Coz if u come in relationship with this guy, u will end up cheating on him with someone else directly or indirectly. Rejection is better than cheating on someone. And if u don't come in relationship and still giving him false hopes, it's worst. Dont do that with anyone.

[EmmaMary]

If your heart and body is saying No, then there's your answer.

[Kulotz]

if you dont feel it, then you dont. no need to force yourself just because he is a good guy.

[Anonymous]

Cut contact with him, if he can't be just friends with you and can't take no as answer he should move on to someone else.

[JayBones]

You belong in the streets cat lady. Perpetually miserable. Set this wonderful man free to a good and decent woman.

[laly520]

u clearly dont want him
move on

[lildkman1010]

What do you mean when you’re having sex?

[BLP11520]

Follow your heart dear.

[Anonymous]

He's not hot or rich. That much is obvious.😎