Need advice please?

[Anonymous]

These past few years I've been texting the guy I'm talking to’s friends like on social media ( the girls that he's friend with) to ask if there's anything going on with him and this girl that I know from high school because I always see pictures of them on her social media like her instagram. On top of this I usually tell him that my stomach hurts because I get stomach aches a lot and I text his friends to tell them if he could answer my text. On the apps instagram and Snapchat and I got blocked by two of the girls. Is there a reason why they would block me? I messaged them on multiple accounts and but I'm confused. I don't mean to come off as annoying or anything to these people they say I'm harassing them which I'm not really sure what that means like I'm not familiar with the meaning of that word. What should I do because I'm anxious from all of this. I hate getting blocked on social media because it makes me feel like people think negatively about me and now I feel a bit annoying but I'm not sure how to stop like i get the urge to message them a lot

[Anonymous]

A bit annoying? Girl you are doing way too much, period! Why are you blowing up his friends? Why are you keeping tabs on him through them? He’s not even your man you say you’re just talking for years! I am not trying to make you feel embarrassed or ashamed but I think you are in denial about how clingy and weird your actions look.

[Asker]

Him and I have been in talking stage

[Asker]

I have a learning disability and ocd and anxiety issues

[Asker]

when I was In high school I used to go to school nurse for problems like stomach pains to the stress, anxiety and personal problems I’ve been receiving in school I not in denial but I’m not trying to annoy these people on purpose

[Opinion Owner]

A talking stage is a few months not years. If you have a learning disability that’s fine, allow me to help you out then by saying you did way too much. You use all of his friends in order to keep tabs and access to him and that’s not ok. Those girls probably cut you off because you were not interested in genuine friendship just asking about him all the time, you even entered that friend group on his behalf, so all your actions look disingenuous. I don't know if anyone has ever had a serious talk with you about how to deal with boys but this is soooo not it.

[Opinion Owner]

If you don’t want to annoy them then stop talking to them about him. Seriously you are making a fool of yourself and I am just being honest not trying to hurt your feelings.

[Asker]

Thank you and I know talking stages are a few months but I have a ld so it affect my communications skills so I’ve been in talking stages with this guy for years x relationships and friendships in general are difficult for me because of it and it affects like my mood/ personality sometimes I’m meeting with a therapist in January regarding this issue :/ so hopefully she’ll be able to help me

[Opinion Owner]

If you struggle with communication, trust, etc then I promise an LDR is the LAST thing you need. Now I understand why you go to his friends and that’s because you can’t be with him yourself so you worry. Well let me ask you this, what is the point? Like if he can’t be your boyfriend because of the distance then is there a solid to change your situation?

It’s been years, and I have a feeling he isn’t doing Jack-shit to make you feel like this is all worth your time. So why would you stay in contact with a man like this?

[Opinion Owner]

I meant to say “a solid plan”

[In_Trance]

This is retarded. Move on

[jahaims]

You're mental

[Asker]

I’m not. There’s a thing called ocd which I suspect is that. A lot of people have ocd and mental health issues nowdays. You commenting this is just awful.

[jahaims]

Saying you aren't mental then proceeds to tell me what is wrong mentally, lol. You lack awareness. Just because a lot of people have the same issue doesn't mean it isn't an issue. If you get into a car accident, do you say "oh that's fine, car accidents happen all the time"