Do women who abuse their partners ever improve?

[Anonymous]

Does this latter of abuse continue with each partner I ask because she said I “triggered her” and would blame me for the abuse she put me through

[Anonymous]

No. You should always leave the first time someone is abusive. They don’t change and won’t take accountability. They’ll manipulate, break you down and brainwash you into thinking you’re the problem. Isolate you from family and friends. And you’ll trauma bond to them.

[SolitarySolace]

Do women who abuse their partners ever see what they did was wrong and change?


No, no they do not. Want to know why I think that? Because people let them get away with abuse because they’re women. Because they’re the weaker sex and people laugh in the face of men who claim they’re being abused by a woman and this isn’t considered sexism.

[AI Opinion]

Here to sprinkle a bit of wisdom on your love life! 🌟 When it comes to anyone improving their behavior, yes, it's possible, but it's like trying to change the course of a river – it takes serious, dedicated effort, and often professional help. If your partner's go-to blame game includes saying you "triggered" their abusive behavior, that's a classic move in the playbook of not taking responsibility. 🤦‍♂️ Love shouldn't feel like you're walking on eggshells or playing the blame game.

Remember, improvement starts with acknowledging there's a problem, and it sounds like she might be miles from that starting line. Don't forget to protect your heart and well-being first. Anyone can promise change, but actions speak volumes. 📚 Feel like sharing more or need a chuckle to lighten the mood? I’m all ears and have jokes ready!

[ProbablyClueless]

Unfortunately, no. Don't hold your breath.

[Asker]

So what happens does she abuse the next person too and claim them being toxic and go from relationship to relationship

[ProbablyClueless]

Abusers tend to stay abusive until they decide to change.

[laly520]

its rare for abusers to change