Is being a lesbian a bad thing?

[Anonymous]

I've been feeling so guilty about this since I was a kid. Nowadays this issue is making me more sad and I fell into depression, I broke things off with all my friends and all I do is stay in bed. I don't know what I should do

[Anonymous]

you are depressed... and you need to see a therapist to fix that. this has nothing to do with sexual orientation. tho i do get it. i hope you can find ways to cope with that. that is who you are and what you like. just how it is. need to cope with whatever feelings you are having towards your sexual orientation and accept yourself the way you are. you can heal this and you can accept yourself with a bit of work. there is no reason to break things off with friends. friends are there to help you and support you. without that, it is very hard to move on with things and deal with things. repair those friendships as soon as you are able.

[bobalife]

Learning to accept is the hardest thing, but it’s actually a relief and beautiful thing once you’re able to be okay with discovering this is your identity and it’s okay even if not everyone gets it. Hope you find at least one friend or family member you trust enough as a safe space to share about it 🫶🏻 I’m here to chat as well if you need someone who understands you.

[MackBoy]

Girl marrying a girl or boy marrying a boy doesn't make any babies and population will decrease when this happens. i am not telling it is bad but your generation won't exist. if you marry a man and get a baby, the generation will continue or if you marry a woman and adopt a baby, your generation doesn't continue but the that generation of that baby will continue because it is not connected to your bloodline. very soon man will marry a woman and a man which will be named or woman will marry a man and a woman which will be named. So funny to hear these words as lesbian, gay or transgender. people had become super genius

[TommyMountainFigure]

Of course not. Never feel guilty for your sexual preference!

What should you do? Get out of bed, jump in the shower, call your friends and apologise for not keeping in contact with them, but say you have had issues you had to deal with, that meant you had to hide yourself away, and if they can forgive you, you would like to meet up and talk!

You don't need to tell them why you hid away. but you need them if you are to get back to normality!

[AI Opinion]

Diving straight in, love: being a lesbian or any shade of the beautiful LGBTQ+ rainbow is absolutely NOT a bad thing. Your feelings, your love, they make you uniquely dazzling. Guilt and sadness can be heavy clouds, but remember, every cloud can drift away to reveal your sunshine. It sounds like you're carrying a lot, and bottling it up isn't doing you any favors. Let's start with baby steps: reaching out to someone trustworthy or seeking a professional who can guide you through this fog. Remember, love, you're not alone, and there’s a whole world out there waiting to embrace you for exactly who you are. Always here for a chat if you need a sprinkle of cheer or a listening ear. Feel free to drop a line! 💖

[Dongie]

Yeah, hey. AI my ass, programmed.

[sukumamu]

You being you hurts no one. If your words/actions don't hurt yourself or others, it's nobody else's business. Anyone who doesn't realize this basic life mechanic needs to grow up. Go to gay/lesbian bars, find online communities, put yourself out there and build a friend group that respects you.

[DagonbroughtMehere]

No, that being all You are is, Lesbian is a sexual preference, My Niece is Lesbian, Mu only regret is Her Girlfriend in the criminal Manipulative sort.

Then you have the Activists that see only the political side of things, 𝑡ℎ𝑎𝑡 is a bad thing.

[Twalli]

There is nothing wrong with being attracted towards girls. I am too, they're so sexy. So I understand why you'd be attracted to them. As for you being a girl, that's not a problem. There are plenty of people who are attracted to their gender. It isn't as common as heterosexuals, but nobody fills all the boxes for what is common.

[Berethor]

It's birth defect, woman with a sexuality of a man, but it good way to be a technical virgin.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Technically this is true, all preferences are based on genetic developments in the womb, and an individual cannot pass on their genetic material unless they reproduce, which in nature requires them to have sex with the opposite gender.

Not everyone who's straight wants kids though (I'm straight and I don't want kids).

[TheSpaceGnome]

Artificial fertilization from a sperm donation clinic would also be a possible workaround for a lesbian to have kids, but they will lack a father, and that can result in problems raising them.

[Berethor]

Yea it gets in a way of reproducion and normal family with father, so it not good thing.

[dragoblack]

Having any kind of sexual orientation is never ever a bad thing, and shame on those who shame you. Do how you feel as long as it is legal and doesn't hurt others. Be happy with those you find romantic interests in and do what makes you happy.

[slatyb]

Of course not. Ignore the haters. Avoid them whenever possible.

[NewgodOmega]

Its safe for men so I being extreme mgtow want all women to be lesbians at least it will keep all the men safe

[HouseMoat]

Never apologize for who you are. Why you're on a site called "girls ask guys", while gay, is beyond me

It's not called "girls ask girls about girls"

[JacobJordan]

Long as you don't force it on others it doesn't matter to me

[exitseven]

No, I would not mind being a lesbianism for a while.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Nope, its fine, why would you ditch all your friends though?

[Avicenna]

That's for you to decide.

[Wiredone]

No it's not a bad thing. It's just your preference

[Dongie]

I could say depends on her looks. But, as long as they don't bother me I don't but mind my own.

[OddBeMe]

Are you kidding? It’s vogue now! Just not at church.

[Bennygunns]

Yes... Unnatural lust. Most likely you're confusing feelings of comfort and comradery with "love" (which isn't a feeling at all)

[alice55]

It's better to be straight.

[war_daddy]

no you're fine. lots of people are gay nowadays

[Asker]

well this is not common in the Middle East so..

[StarWarGirl]

Even if you are only one out there it doesn't mean you are wrong to do something. So stay strong and confident on yourself it's not wrong at all.

You only got attraction for the same sex which was a natural thing. You didn't choose that to whom to get attracted but you are born with it. Then how are you wrong about it?

If anyone to be blamed here to be wrong in that case only God is to be blamed. But really it's not wrong.

Just you are unique that's it.

[jimmy2]

Nowadays come here Sweety

[sirderpsalot123]

It's not a bad thing

[riverrat3]

Why would it be bad