Do you think I'm a lesbian?

[Anonymous]

I actually hope I am one and I uncover a lust I never knew. So basically, I think women are kinder, more empathetic, more aware and more romantic than men. I'd always support a woman over a man. I don't think I'm physically into women but I think I could love them romantically because I respect them more than men. Could I be a lesbian?

[EmmaMary]

@chandelier8

Most of what you've posted are completely normal traits of the majority of women.

[EmmaMary]

Gosh... Thank you so much for the AI BC.

[NathanDavis]

nope... lesbians are either or both, sexually and romantically attracted to women...

you're just agreeable with women or more like, biased towards them

[Asker]

What if sex isn't a part of it? What if we're both asexual?

[NathanDavis]

then you would still be just asexual... it does not change the other sentiments or situations

asexuals are not lesbians either...

[Asker]

You can be with a woman and not have sex... what's that then if two women are both asexual and romantic? They're not lesbians?

[NathanDavis]

if both women are together in a relationship... then they would be asexual, romantic lesbians, yes...

but that does not make you a lesbian in particular

[Asker]

I think it might.

[NathanDavis]

okay... an asexual romantic lesbian

nothing wrong about that, in my opinion

[Iron_Man]

You can only be a lesbian if you have sexual attraction towards them

[Iron_Man]

Besides, you’ve already said you’re asexual, but you didn’t know

[Asker]

I am at times. I just go through phases.

[Iron_Man]

You’re probably having confusion

[Asker]

I'm not really confused. I just don't really care all that much about it.

[Iron_Man]

Then don’t concern yourself with dating just live your life maybe you’ll change 10 years down the road or less and date men

[Asker]

I don't date.

[HelpfulWoman]

doesn't sound like it. you just sound like the alternative of the weird male simps on here.

[HouseMoat]

Could be, but, your premise is wrong

If it were right, ALL women would be gay

[Asker]

What's my premise? Why would all women be gay?

[Nikki1989]

Well, you should know by now.

[Asker]

I'm kind of asexual in general at times... so I don't know

[Wise4myage]

No, I don't think your even bi or bi curious.