And I mean alll the time. They block or delete each other after an argument, then out of the blue they get a text from them a few months later. It’s like they are giving each other breaks and coming back to see if they matured or to see if they’re doing ok? Why do they keep coming back to each other?
Because they are meant for each other , there is no explanation as to why they treat each other that way but apparently it works for the both of them , Usually couples that argue and butt heads and walk away from each other and come back to each other , pretty much means that couple has a lot of passion for each other , it’s a love , hate, love relationship , I experienced this type of relationship with my wife , even though her and I parted ways and remained friends , we still have passion for each other , even though we can’t stand each other most times and constantly butt heads , but we both know deep down inside we care about each other and love each other , but we can’t be with each other , if that makes sense , we are mainly just fuck buddies for now , the sex between us is great only if she is in the mood lol if I am in the mood , I get denied , why her and I aren’t really together anymore. We are mainly just FWB’s now and focusing on ourselves , her and I are both in no rush to meet someone else , if we do then we will take ot from there
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yes it's a sign of underlying issues and incompatabilities. can identify the issues and then decide if each will work on their side. or else eventually they are ground to powder and finished.
The Bible is right again..."stone sharpens stone"...
It's not healthy. I was in this kind of relationship, I realise this is what I learned, from watching my parents.
After therapy and growing up I realised that sometimes some people may offer excitement and passion but they don't have anything substantial worth holding on to.
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Yes & no.. it depends on the individuals and situations. Some cases is seen more toxic and they should stay broken up. Other cases maybe they just really care about each other and wanna fight for that love to make it work… some end up happily together after.
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Its toxic that they fight if they love eachother, or its toxic that they won't leave for good if they don't.
the solution is to either stop fighting, and stay together for good because they share hobbies, interests, values, etc, or stay apart because they are incompatible.Usually yes, I would say. I used to be in a relationship like that where the guy and I were on and off, and I know I had some toxic and immature traits back then. My traits caused me to behave in ways I was not proud of.
Yes, yes it is! They clearly enjoy the feeling they get from making up to go through it over and over again!
Lol I guess so, how would I know lol. Yet actually i guess even single me has his own baggage. Yes I have baggage. So I'd say many things are toxic without the particulars as I basically answered without reading sorry not sorry 😈😈😈😋😋
The underlying issues why they are leaving each other COULD be toxic. Getting back together isn't toxic if it's for the right reason. I don't think leaving repeatedly is good for emotional health though.
I don't think is it it could just be that people are pretty impulsive and said things they didn't mean in the heat of the moment.
That is not healthy. The easiest thing to do is to just move on with life.
What you’ve described does sound toxic, yes.
That's toxic and childish.
yes kind of toxic
They're immature.
What do you think.🙄
Maybe
Not always.
Yep..
Toxic asf
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