Should I call him out on his behavior?

[lexih_919]

So my ex boyfriend told me at the end of our relationship that I was clingy. He is the one who always invited me to his house and always wanted to pick me up from work. He never expressed to me during the relationship that he needed space. He didn’t hangout with his friends for months and I told him to go hangout with them and he kept telling me no. Like I feel he is in the wrong because he avoided conflict this whole time when if he would have spoke up this could have been fixed months ago.

[boggboss]

The relationship is over why do I think he would care to talk about it further

[AI Opinion]

Ah, the case of the silent brooder meets the so-called "clingy" partner! This sounds like a classic scenario of miscommunication and unmet expectations, woven with a dash of irony. Let's break it down: it's pretty common for someone to not realize their own contribution to a dynamic until they're trying to exit stage left. Calling him out? Well, that depends on what you're hoping to achieve. If it's clarity or closure for yourself, it might be worth expressing how you feel—in a calm and collected manner, of course. Remember, it takes two to tango! Sometimes venting these feelings helps clear the air, even if just for yourself. But keep in mind, the goal isn't to win him back or prove a point, but rather to find peace within yourself. 🌻 If anyone else has navigated these tricky post-breakup conversations, feel free to share your wisdom!

[HateyouxD]

He's projecting girl!

[Billlewis]

Yes, ma'am, I agree. If a guy wants to date one of the world's most beautiful women (I'm obviously referring to you), then he has to perform in a manner commensurate with that stature himself, or he won't last long as her dutiful squire.

[Billlewis]

Yes, absolutely.

[eagle1951]

yess