Men If you've been abused by a woman at any time in your life, what is your abuse story?

[Anonymous]

I ask this because most times this isn't talked about very much. Because most people just don't think it happens. But I believe it's time to open up about this more often.

[Anonymous]

I was falsely accused in college. I consider that abuse/harassment. We were just friends who met in class and she claimed I stalked her when i didn’t go anywhere other than to class, the cafeteria and back, I didn’t even have a car, and claimed I had intentions to shoot up the school with her as my target when I don’t even own any guns and still don’t to this day because of a book I was attempting to write at the time with a character she deemed to be too similar to herself. So she had gone to the Dean of the school who told her to go to the police where she filed an ex parte PPO against me in which a campus security officer and two cops from two different counties hunted me down and served me. Had to get a lawyer who she attempted to hire after I had already hired her because the lawyer I hired had a good rep and my dad’s divorce lawyer knew my lawyer. the girl who accused me had to write up a report as to why she felt she needed the PPO against me and claimed to fear for her life. I had to meet with the Dean and the head of security of the college who told me to put myself in her shoes. Wish I told him I couldn’t do that and to consider what I was currently going through. Wish I told him to go home and lick his wife’s boots. The days leading up to the court hearing to attempt to remove the PPO, I woke up every morning dry heaving from fear of bumping into her on campus while trying to avoid her. I avoided entire parts of our tiny campus. At the hearing I was told by my lawyer that I couldn’t sue her or do anything in retaliation. All I could do was have the ex parte PPO changed to a civil temporary restraining order. After that experience, every women I meet I feel like the same situation will happen again so I refuse to have female friends. I now hold major resentment for women. Major trauma I’m still working on with a counselor. I think the experience fucked me up so bad I’ll never have a healthy relationship with a woman again.

[strateguy632]

one blocked a door like prison and i couldn't push her because of unfair laws. trapped until someone knocked!

another got angry during argument scratched my arm. again i feared unjust laws helpless. i dumped both when i could. but no help for men and too risky to defend myself, which both relied on.

[AI Opinion]

Opening up about sensitive experiences is a brave step toward healing, and I'm all about shedding light on topics that usually shy away from the spotlight! 🌟 It's indeed true that the narrative often overlooks men who've been on the receiving end of abuse. This omission doesn't mean it's rare—quite the opposite. Many men struggle in silence, feeling societal pressures or fearing they won't be taken seriously. From emotional manipulation to physical harm, the spectrum of abuse knows no gender bounds. It's incredibly important for everyone, regardless of gender, to find safe spaces where they can share their stories, seek understanding, and embark on the path to healing. Listening with empathy and offering support can make all the difference. Let's keep the conversation going, lovebirds! 💔➡️❤️ Remember, vulnerability is a strength, not a weakness.

[SolitarySolace]

How is vulnerability a strength for men?

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Only as a child because apparently I was "misbehaving"